I think this question deals more with parenting than baseball itself, but I'm curious to see what everyone thinks. My son did not make the hs team. There were 80 or so freshman trying out. He made the first cut, but in the end it was him and a few other catchers. They chose two guys with pop times of 2.0 and 2.1. Pretty incredible for freshmen I thought. My son had a 2.3. The other guys threw in the high 70's and one guy broke 80 mph. My son threw 68mph. I had been warning him for months that this school has a very competitive baseball program and that he must assume there will be players better than him, but he really didn't listen. He's used to being told how good he is and I think he got cocky. He was only a catcher for one season and he had never really practiced pop time. There's only so much I can do myself. I really don't have time to take him down to a field and practice with him, not to mention the fact that I'm kinda scared to stand at 2nd base and receive his throws. Maybe in full body armor I wouldn't mind . I've bought him books and dvds, but he really wasn't too interested. Now he's learned the hard way. He's incredibly disappointed. The head coach spoke with him after the cuts and told him this was an unusual year with so many extremely talented freshman. He told him that if he had just been a little better he would have made it. I thought my son was doing more to prepare. I set up a net and a tee in our garage, but he's only done that sporadically. I signed him up for a weekly winter hitting/conditioning clinic, but he blew that off quite a few times to hang out with friends. Needless to say, that ****ed me off.
I don't understand him. He's loved baseball since he was just a little guy and he claims that it's all he wants to do with his life. When he's on a team he's totally into it. He could practice and play day and night every day and he would be thrilled, but when he's on his own he shows no motivation. Do you think that that passion really has to come from within or, as a parent, would you push this kid? I've never been one to make a kid do something he didn't want to, as far as athletics or activities are concerned, but this is getting to me because I don't know if he just needs a kick in the butt or if he really does lack the passion. When I ask him he says he doesn't know. I'm really curious to know how other kids are. Do your guys work and work at it without being told or do you have to push them? Do they love the game so much that they're willing to sacrifice friends and video games to practice on their own? Thanks!
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