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My son is in his Freshman year. His school is shallow on talent, and it does not look good for the next couple of years. He is a pitcher, and is getting killed on errors, and lack of run support. It is tough to see him pitch a complete game only to lose due to errors on routine plays, etc. We hope it will get better, but it won't. Not to mention the politics and parents, but you have that everywhere.

I can transfer him to a school with better talent, coaching, etc. His goal is to play college ball. He has the grades and the ability. Is winning at the high school level all that important, or should he just learn a lesson in loyalty and take the lumps with his school?

He likes his school and his friends there, but he is clearly getting frustrated. Should he just ride out a bad high school team and hope he gets noticed through his summer travel team and showcases? My gut feeling is to have him ride it out. Learning loyalty will take him a long way through life. Thanks for any advice.
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I'd also say stick it out... He is only a Freshman - so there are 3 more years to make the program better - see if there are ways he can get some of the other underclassmen to participate in off season workouts.

Don't foget the grass isn't always greener on the other side. He would have to reestablish himself with the new high school - and he might end up on the bottom of the pecking order.

Better to make the school he is at a better baseball school.
CNY - My son is in his Senior year, and they are making errors behind him, although to be fair last year's team was pretty good. You never know who might enroll, or decide to really work at their game. But, he played on terrific travel teams and throws hard so he still signed a NLI with a top school. It's about the summer ball - meanwhile, build your son's core strengh, find a good pitching coach, watch the pitch count, run off the lactic acid and ice. Agree that the grass is not always greener.
CNY2010 - Sounds a LOT like our son's HS situation a number of years ago. When he entered his HS, they were something like 5-20 his freshman year.

By the time he was a senior, they were 20-game winners, league champs (1st time in 15 years) and won a game in the section playoffs (1st time in school history).

Lots of pride in that kind of accomplishment by his teammates and himself.

BUT...there were a LOT of frustrating times too. So there isn't a really clean answer to your question...other than it shouldn't hurt his college chances if he truly has the skills.

Good luck! Wink

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