Need some advice on how to proceed with this situation. This past Friday, Regional game, son had 5 innings remaining (pitching). Started the game and pitched first 3 innings giving up 1 unearned run (team down 1-0). Took son out and put in different pitcher for 2 (4th and 5th innings), who pitched well, giving up another run (team now down 2-0), then put son back in the game at pitcher for the final 2 innings. He played shortstop the 2 innings he was out pitching. Team ended up losing 3-0 and season is over.
Here's my problem. The coach did this to my son the second game this season as well as the playoff game. At that time, he pitched the first, 3rd and sixth innings (played second in between pitching). Immediately after the game, coach came up to me and apologized for the move, saying he wouldn't do that again (son's arm hurt after that game and didn't pitch for a week). Wasn't too happy that happened, I thought it put too much stress on his arm, but he assured me it wouldn't happen again. It did. Two questions:
1. Is this bad for a pitcher to do? I thought it was terrible, but many of the parents didn't think it was a big deal.
2. How to proceed next year? The coach has been there over 40 years and will probably be back again next year. He's already lied as to not doing this again. What assurances would I have to prevent this again next year? Should I even be concerned?
Your advice and insight would be greatly appreciated.