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Originally posted by CPLZ:
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Originally posted by PGStaff:
Note: Asked for parents to comment if they had been lied to by college recruiters. So far no one has replied to that.
I wouldn't read too much into that. It's a little like asking for volunteers for a s ex survey, people might be a bit leery about stepping up. Parents with players currently in school, may view their testimony as possibly harmful to their sons current situation and withhold. There's many more reasons to be silent than not.
Lied to be a recruiter? Like "we consider you our number one priority"? I've heard some of that, and viewed it with a great deal of skepticism.
O.K...I'll bite...looking back, I always tempered any recruiting conversation with a comment made to me by a friend of mine early in the recruiting process..."Always remember, there's recruiting and then there's offers". I kind of knew the game going in, but my wife took it pretty hard.
Not sure if there was real intent to deceive but,a nice guy, well-respected recruiter in a top conference from the south "lied" to us on at least two separate occasions...once, three days before official visit when he told us that the minimum baseball money (25%) would be available if the academic money did not come through (Head coach acted totally surprised at that statement on the official visit...stated, in late Sept, mind you, "I'm still looking for my Friday mound guy").
After expressing the disappointment to the recruiter about this turn of events, he indicated that he would heavily pursue his first statement, and contact our son immediately himself if this would not be the case...conveniently made it through fall season before finally answering in the negative, after being pursued for answers by my son.
It happens...and I'm not so sure it doesn't happen regularly, since this was from a "top-notch" assistant.