What do you guys think?
My 4 year old son was playing in the CF playground today while I was umpiring my daughter's 9 yr. old softball game. He wasn't more than 300 ft. away. My wife is a nurse and had to work this weekend. I had to umpire cause the umps didn't show, and the coaches asked if I would fill in. Plenty of moms at the playground to watch the kids. A couple said they would look out for him, even though they had daughters playing in the game (clear visual of the field from the playground).
Found myself, as always, looking my son's way each minute for the entire game. In the 6th inning, I looked up just in time to see a 6 year old kid throw a rock at my son that struck him about 1/8" below his left eye. I hauled tail to the playground immediately. While I was running to the playground, my kid was crying, and immediately started whaling on the other kid. I was screaming for my boy to stop, which he did after he got a couple of licks in on the other boy. I get to my son, blood dripping and still crying.
The mom's who were supervising had turned their back for only a moment, and this is what happened. I don't blame them...but was a little shocked at one's comments after things calmed down. They understood my son was angry the other kid threw the rock at him (apparently unprovoked), but they were equally shocked that my son starting pounding on the kid...even though he was crying and hurting pretty badly.
I told the lady that my children are taught not to hit or beat on other kids, but that they shouldn't just lay back and take it if another is harming them. She said I should teach them to tell an adult when they get hurt by someone else. I thanked her for the advice, but told her I felt she was living in a fantasy world.
What do you guys think?
Original Post