Being the proverbial 300-lb. gorilla in any major business means you will get plenty of complaints. There are things I don't like about Verizon, Apple, the main grocery store chain in my area, even if I continue to do business with them. When we decide to patronize any company (or not), we weigh pros and cons and make our decision. But deciding to buy doesn't mean we forfeit the right to say our piece about things we don't like.
I don't understand the commenters on this board who seem to bristle at almost any criticism of PG. I also don't agree with the folks who just bash it. There are things about PG I like, others I don't. (Is that wishy-washy enough?). My son wants to keep going to PG tournaments, and I generally look forward to them.
When it comes to youth sports: you--and more importantly, your kids--have to enjoy the ride. If it's just an "investment" that you hope will return a college scholarship or an MLB paycheck, then I think you are doing it wrong. Spend what you can afford and what makes sense for your family, but do it for the love of the game (and because kids need to experience being good at, and serious about preparing for, something--sports, orchestra, drama, science fairs, 4-H, whatever).
I disagree with those who say parents shouldn't watch their kids' games. Yeah, if you can't afford it, then you shouldn't go (of course). But some of my best times with my children was traveling to and from games, spending family time in motels for tournaments, coaching their teams when they were young or just playing/practicing with them in the yard. And watching your kid play is fun! (Heck, my kid is a PO now, so I spend a lot of time at tournaments just watching other people's kids play. Many are players I have watched grow up--it's fun to see them, too.)
My oldest left for college this fall and I already miss going to her HS soccer and basketball games. My youngest has a couple of years of HS baseball left, and I am trying to savor those before they are gone, too.