Bohn, your topic has cooled off for a few days, but I'll still jump in. It appears you have been advised that private school baseball is not the same caliber as public school baseball. Please consider the following.
Academics certainly need to be the primary determining factor in choice of schools. 99.9% of our kids will make their living doing something other than playing baseball. The public school AP and IB programs are excellent, but please do not dismiss private school education. I think most of the private schools offer a rigorous academic program. GCA, Norfolk Academy, NSA, Cape Henry and others (whom I apologize for not mentioning by name) offer extremely high level academic programs. Players from the private programs are well prepared for college...and for life. My family went with the private schools. We paid tuition to GCA for 19 years and make no mistake, it was a financial consideration then... and even more so in these uncertain economic times. Still, we feel the investment in our children was money well spent.
At GCA, baseball has been a big sport that has enjoyed considerable success. The facilities reflect the level of commitment to baseball. Our head coach, Gary Lavelle, has certainly been a major factor. Gary is without debate the premier pitching coach in this area. The opportunity to play for Gary has attracted many players and parents to the program. We scheduled 33 regular season games this year and play many public schools and top level private programs from Hampton Roads and outside the area and state. It isn't accurate to characterize our schedule as not facing "top competition" and our players stats as being padded. Admittedly some of our games are against teams/schools who don't have an emphasis on baseball, but overall our kids play a schedule that matches or exceeds anything the public school teams get. Certainly we play more games. This year we will play public schools Poquoson, Phoebus, Jamestown, Yorktown, Princess Anne, Bayside, Lake Taylor and Centerville High School. Private programs from out of the area include games against Liberty Christian, Lawrence Academy, Fredericksburg Christian and Steward School. We also will play games against our traditional private school opponents including Bishop Sullivan, Portsmouth Christian, Norfolk Academy, NSA and Cape Henry. If you take time to check out some of the programs you don't recognize, you will find several of them are top programs in their area.
The private school leagues have faired well when we have faced our public school counterparts. Last year GCA hosted an Easter/Spring Break tournament and the championship game featured GCA vs NSA, both private school teams. There were quite a few top shelf public school teams in that tournament, including Maury, P.A. and Kellam. A few years back we were invited to and won the Beach Blast Tournament. Many of our former players have gone on to play college and professional baseball. This paragraph is not intended to offend any public school players, parents or coaches. We certainly respect their programs and appreciate the opportunity to play the public school teams. We recognize they often have difficulty fitting non conference games into their schedule.
Bohn, make the decision that is best for your family, but make it on accurate information. Good luck.