trying ...
You have made some good posts over the past few days since you joined ... but now you are really starting to become very 'trying" ...
Bob has set up the 'Ladies Only' forum for a reason. And I think I can speak for most of the ladies who post here regularly by saying that we don't mind the lurking and visiting from the male posters ... but please don't make this a trash site with your silly posts and questions. We have better things to do than check out juvenile posts like you put here under what appears to be a legitimate question/heading.
So ... if you don't want us to tell your mommy on you, please don't waste our space with your nonsense.