Fungo, I am glad you didn't sign up for "Free" as that would have been an NCAA violation when a recruiting service gives away their service to a particular player in the hopes of signing up other players.
I too have never met once college coach at any level who encourages the use of recruiting services or really enjoys receiving information from recruiting services.
The use of their services has been debated to death on this site. While I believe that some services can offer some value, at the end of the day, there isn't a service in the entire country that can make you a better student or make you a better athlete. You can either get in with your grades or you can't and you can either play or you can't. The services that send out letters, faxes, and emails honestly make me sick to my stomach because every coach I speak to (and I speak to a lot) basically says they throw that stuff out as fast as they possibly can.
I am not a big fan of the "we don't have time to research schools" that I hear from parents either. College is a pretty important decision and it takes some effort on your part. High school athletes seem to be the only type of high school student that expect to be recruited and don't want to put forth much effort in researching schools. Every other high school student is pounding the pavement, going to college fairs, looking through brochures, researching schools online, and applying to as many schools as they feel they need to apply to.
The process of researching schools and contacting coaches can be time consuming and sometimes difficult, but anything that is easy, usually isn't worth doing. If you have a basic understanding of what to do and how to do it, and you start the process early, I have found the happiest and succesful families are those that made decisions as to what they wanted in and out of college and then worked hard at finding a match, and recruited a school as much as they were recruited. Parents and students are as much a part of the process as the college coach is, but what has happened the last several years is that exposure is the key and that you have to play in 20 showcases to have a shot at being recruited.
I had a conversation with a lacrosse coach the other day and he said the summer showcase circuit is so ridiculous now, that by the 5th tournament, the kids look awful and there is no way that these coaches can attend every event and now there are like 300+ kids at each event on 20 fields. He said most of the kids he meets are simply trying to get recruited by 50 schools, rather than trying to find 10-15 schools that might be a good match for their skills and desires.
We always try to teach people to reverse the recruiting process, rather than hoping to simply be recruited by any school. If you do some research on your own, evaluate your own ability a little and contact coaches at schools that might be a good fit for your ability, the chances of getting recruited by those schools will infinately increase, provided the coach has a need for your position and has a realistic opportunity to evaluate you through a game or through video and recommendations.
It certainly isn't easy, but sending out a 1,000 emails and letters for 1,400 certainly isn't going to do much.
Dave G
www.varsityedge.com