Thank you all for your input. I am truly a student of all aspects of baseball and am always willing to learn. Clevelanddad, I find it good to hear another side of this discussion. I believe being competitive and not holding anything because is very important. Hard work does pay off and I have seen it many times with myself and teammates.
NxtLvl, I live in New England but I am from the west coast. Lived there 13 of the 15 years of my life. I have been playing baseball year-round since I was 7. From ages 7-10 I played around 60-75 games per year. From 11-13 we played around 70-85 games per year. We also practiced 3 times per week with the games on Saturdays and Sundays. However, Prior to tournaments from age 10-13 we would practice everyday from around 3 weeks before the tournament started. We would usually take 3 weeks off after the summer season but we would be back at after the break. It may seem like early specialization but I have always loved the game of baseball ( Nothing forced upon me by my parents). Now that I live in New England I play around 80 games per year including HS, Fall, and travel ball. I aspir to play collegiately and professionally but know that if I don't, I want to have a job that involves coaching baseball. I am extremely close to my family and had to leave some of them a couple of years ago. Tough? Yes. However, life goes on and there are ways I stay connected to loved ones. Also, my parents and I have been discussing repeating a grade since we thought about it in sixth grade.
Thank you all for the responses!