Well, Chill has a horse in her post, so....maybe that IS the answer!
Silverhaired lady, I am sorry that we are upsetting you....none of us really care whether the snowflakes stay or go, it is just good-natured banter I think (although I am only speaking for myself)....Bob is free to ignore us, which he has clearly chosen to do
and hopefully he knows that we're just kidding around. You just have to search for that "ignore button" that another poster mentioned recently!
Now back to equestrian baseball....
P.S. Wow, I just read that you are a GREATgrandmother, that is awesome! (California-speak here, sorry)...Do all the generations play baseball? Welcome....