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RJM posted:

Well done. My son would have killed to be 6'7". However, it probably would have led him to college basketball. His size (6'1" in hs) steered him towards baseball. I did warn him when he was young he would grow up to be a 6'2" white kid.

Funny my son would kill to be 6'2" - I wish I had a buck for every time I heard I wish he was taller.

Shoveit4Ks posted:

I love it when a plan comes together. Congrats!

Thanks 4Ks.  I hesitated to reveal all the details, both flattering and unflattering.   Don't want to appear boastful, although my son's story is not what I'd call "pretty."  I always appreciated your candor with your son's journey.  You sharing his story showed me that it's possible, that kids can bloom later and to "keep the faith."  Hope you realize that by you sharing your boy's story it helped me help my son. 

Thanks!

And not sure I'd call it a "plan."  More of a path, really.  And I'll be the first to admit, my son's path had many "forks" in it due largely to the blessings my wife and I have received in this life.  I understand that.   Admittedly we have been able to provide  "forks" in the road for our son.  Humbly, he's been blessed with more choices than most kids.  But to his credit, and in the immortal words of Yogi Berra, he's taken every one of them.  He's never taken the path more traveled.  That is to his credit, and I believe helped him to arrive at where he is now.  

Congrats!

Your son's journey shows that sometimes there can be success in taking a less worn path. I believe it was Babe Ruth who said, "It's hard to beat a man who refuses to quit."

I commend you for realizing that even though it may not have been the best thing at the time for his baseball career, spending the year abroad was an amazing opportunity that your son will remember long after he has hung up the spikes.  So many parents lose sight of the fact that we aren't just raising baseball players - but also kids that we want to go on to be happy and successful adults.

ClevelandDad posted:

Great, great post.  A dream is a powerful thing.  When you have one, wonderful things can happen.  A wonderful thing has happened for your son and your family and you have much to be proud of.  All the best to him and your family in the future.

ClevelandDad AND everyone,

Thank you for the well wishes.  That's all it ever was, a "dream."  I am telling you, the years age 13-17  in this game have been BRUTAL.  It's a miracle son just didn't quit, and like most HS 6-7s just dunk basketballs and hang with the cheerleaders.  Seriously.  Baseball between ages of 13-17, that transition from LL to HS ball is just brutal for some kids, my son being one of them.   

Many more "down" days ahead I'm sure.  But son weathering the storm between 13-17 has been huge.  For every (1) good baseball day these past 4-years, there have been (9) disaster baseball days.  

Some one on here, I think Ironhorse, said something once about success being defined as " if you can still get up after getting your a$$ knocked down," you're doing ok.  Something like that?  Son kept getting up I guess?

old_school posted:
RJM posted:

Well done. My son would have killed to be 6'7". However, it probably would have led him to college basketball. His size (6'1" in hs) steered him towards baseball. I did warn him when he was young he would grow up to be a 6'2" white kid.

Funny my son would kill to be 6'2" - I wish I had a buck for every time I heard I wish he was taller.

Haha... you guys got a long way to go... when you get to around "wishes he was 5'8", let me know and we'll enter the conversation.

Coach - BIG congratulations and awesome story.  Love to hear more of the true grind stories that are, I think, more of an accurate look at the journeys for most of our boys.  Even the 6'7" ones.

Congrats to your son and family. Love the story! As coach Brown said "You can't teach height". In the end it was his hard work and your help that paid off, regardless of the height. My son had a 6'7" team mate in college that really struggled with control so having height, while an advantage, is not a magic bullet by any stretch. Best of luck in the future. PM me with the program. 

So happy for you and your son! I've been following you since you and I chatted on here and love the journey so far. He certainly has worked hard to get where he is at moment. Tell him to don't settle. Keep working hard, there is so much more to come.

Most of you know my son's baseball story and if not, feel free to look at my profile and read, but what I am most proud of with him (and all my kids) is the person they have become and are becoming. One thing I learned on here (of many) is as much as I love baseball, what I really love is my kids. Because baseball was so important to him, it became even more important to me. The person he is becoming as a college student and young man is very cool to watch.

The life lessons and experiences your son had in Europe will never be forgotten and it is amazing that you were foresighted enough to let him experience life. Congrats!!! 

I loved reading your son's story.  Thanks for sharing, and congrats on the committment.  It seems that no matter who your son is, there are always going to be obstacles.  Even if the kid is a can't miss prospect, they will still need to find a way to fight through things.  Maybe it is a coach they don't like, a bad outing when they aren't used to getting shelled, soreness, an injury, etc.  Your son's story of perseverance is very uplifiting, and motivating. 

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