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i know several websters have said its ok to ask a scout a question but until yesterday I never approach one I only talk to those that came to me...

Anyway my son got his first start yesterday and I was dying to know how fast he was pitching there was a scout near by with a gun..so finally about the 3rd inning I worked up the nerve and asked nicely if he could tell me how fast he was pitching....his response sure see for your self and hands me the gun...no way did I want it and I'm like no you can just tell me so then he hands it to my husband who was like me and help it up for one sec and my son hit the kid at the plate and my husband past it back real quick (but he really had a great first start despite this 4.1 IP and gave up 1 ER). The scout was was real nice and laughed at us for not wanting to do it and he did talk to us for a bit in general about scouting and did put us at ease. So next time I will remember its not that hard to ask

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Most that I have met are not only approachable but very friendly. They are just like us. I usually go to them and tell them I was a scout at two levels with the same organization when I was younger, cub then boy. That usually puts them at ease. Aslong as you don't interfere with what they are trying to accomplish and/or drive them crazy by shameless attempts to promote your child, they really enjoy the interaction just like two dads, coaches, fans unfamiliar with each other but enjoy talking about the game.
In the past I've heard many strange things from parents. Actually had one dad set down and tell me about another scout that said his kid could be the first pick of the draft. Well, his kid was pretty good, but I would have bet both ears he would not have been drafted at all, let alone #1. I still have both ears! It's really not much fun listening to someone tell you how great their son is, when you never even asked. Afterall, you are getting paid to figure out how good players are.

Most scouts are good people and easy to talk to. My suggestion is... when it comes to your son, wait for them to start the conversation. They will want to talk to you, if they think your son has great talent. Other than those with the most talent, they (scouts) don't have any favorite players. Parents really can't do anything to change a good scouts opinion of a player.

However, if you are friendly and don't even mention your son's name, chances are sooner or later the scout might ask you who your son is. And he will appreciate him for having such classy parents. Might even want to help him out regarding college opportunities.

In other words... promoting your son to a scout will never work. Sometimes it can work against him, though.
I always approached the college and pro scouts first that attended my sons games. I introduced myself and let him know if he had any questions to let me know, then I went back to my seat. There was never a scout that left a game without coming up to say goodbye or to talk a bit. I understood he was there to do a job, my son was there to do a job, and I was there as a reference for both. The scouts seemed to have picked up that I was there on their terms, and it resulted in very cool relationships that I'm sure will remembered when he becomes draft eligable again in a couple years.
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