There's been discussion over the years about fans taunting opposing players in college games. I've seen it firsthand at some D1 venues, and I'm not a big fan. That said, I love to see college kids come out and root for their team. I'm posting this to get it off my chest...very disappointed in one of my son's Head Coach.
My boys had the opportunity to play each other this weekend. A pretty special time for our family that I never thought would be possible.
I've posted briefly about my oldest son's long journey back. God has been very merciful to him and us and we are so thankful. He resumed college and baseball this Spring after several years in the abyss. The abyss is putting it mildly.
His little brother idolizes him and was really looking forward to the weekend. My youngest has battled injuries as a freshman and won't sniff the field this season, unfortunately, after having a great Fall. But getting some time with his big brother was going to be a much needed respite from the grind.
My wife and I could not attend, but my in-laws made the trip. Grandpa is battling cancer and has major surgery coming up, but they really wanted to be there to see the boys. We got some great pictures!
On Friday night, my youngest son's Head Coach asks him to speak before the team. First time...he's been injured and just started practicing again. He said he was extremely nervous. Head Coach asks him one question: "what's a nickname you called your older brother as a kid?". My youngest said he didn't think it was a good idea to answer, but the HC kept pressuring him. So he gave him a name. And immediately after the team meeting called home very upset. And he called his brother to give him a heads up.
My oldest is a starting pitcher. The catcalls started immediately from the PA announcer, young alums and current students in the stands, and all game from my youngest son's teammates. Some adults joined in. My mother-in-law said she asked everyone around her to stop..."that's my Grandson out there and this isn't right".
My oldest has been through a lot so he has a thick skin. But he said it was pretty mean spirited. As he tired during the game, he said it affected him more and more. We were watching on the internet stream. A close play at the plate resulted in some words exchanged and the ump had to separate my oldest from a teammate of my younger guy...some shoving and teammates coming on the field but the umps handled it.
We've been to a half dozen games of both teams. The coaches seem like fine young men, with very nice, involved spouses. My youngest son's Head Coach has kids of his own. We've never seen fans at this school razz an opposing player. We've definitely never seen his team taunt an opposing player.
I'm disappointed that the Head Coach used his authority and put my youngest in a horrible position. I certainly wish my youngest stood up to the coach, but I understand how difficult that could be. I'm disappointed in the coaches and teammates...taunting an opposing player all game...and the brother of one of your teammates? How about you focus on your game? The PA announcer? Come on! Adults in the stands...good grief. Students and young alums...I guess I'm ok with that. As long as my kids can come to your extra curricular activities or work or classes or dining hall and taunt you.
I really don't give a damn about the results...although my oldest felt vindicated. My in-laws were/are miserable. Got another phone call from them today and messages from other families from both teams who were there.
I'm not going to talk about this to my youngest son's Head Coach. At least not now. I need to cool off. This coach knows my oldest son has had a rough journey and he didn't care. Other families spoke up to the coaches after the game. We'll see what he or the school does. I need some time... My sincere apologies to this board...just needed to vent.
"That which does not kill us, makes us stronger." Thank you to God for giving my boys a chance to play each other. A chance to see each other and their Grandparents. We are so appreciative of that.