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First, before discussing the "lost" season, I'd like to thank Bob and everyone who has contributed to this site...it is my first "stop" in the morning and more than a few times I have spit out my coffee laughing, or dropped tears in my coffee crying. It is a great place with great people. I do not post much, mostly because I feel I have so much more to learn and often because everyone else seems to say it so much better.
The purpose of this post is to encourage those out there that are not having that "banner" year. Do not give up. My son, a college sophomore catcher has had two years, with great starts, only to have to deal with early mid-season injuries. Freshman year...hamstring. This year, an old injury (not discovered on MRI) needs scope, but very fixable. In the middle of fresh/soph year his coach (pitching/catching coach, the one that recruited him), left. He dealt with that. Over the summer rehabbed leg, came back strong...first 13 games he hit 6 HR, injury flared up but he thought he could still bat, he found out too late (BA plummeted!) that adjustment just could not be made. Due to a series of events not anyone's fault, he's had to play (not everyday, just "in a jam") and "gut it out" for his team. Not everyone knows he's hurt, so alot of negative comments,needless to say it has been hard for him. The point is this, he told us not to worry, that in fact, he had learned so much about himself, his mental game and life. He said everything he's gone through was something he needed to know for the next level, in life and in baseball.
So, if it is not that season that you were hoping for, look at the big picture and use the experience to better yourself/your son...and remember "Don't complain about the bad hops..anyone can catch the good ones"
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CatsureMom, great story. I also have a story. Our #2 catcher from last year didn't come out and was to be our #1 catcher this year. Our JV catchers were not an option. I went to our right fielder and asked him to make a supreme sacrifice and be our catcher. He has never caught but is tough, smart and such a competitor. Well, he has had a decent year but, again, is not a catcher. It seems all of the colleges that were interested in him for college now have gone elsewhere. I feel so bad for him. However, we have won a bunch of games, our conference and are still in the state playoffs. Last night I asked him if it was worth it knowing the price he has paid for our success. He looked at me and quietly said, "yup!" He might have a lost season statistically but he has had a banner season as a MAN!
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I started to post..."That is a great story too"...but then I realized the turmoil and sacrifices your son had to make to provide you with the subject matter. However, it does send a powerful message.

It also sounds as if your son has everything in perspective... and under control.
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The point is this, he told us not to worry, that in fact, he had learned so much about himself, his mental game and life. He said everything he's gone through was something he needed to know for the next level, in life and in baseball.

The boy is becoming a man! Wink
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CatSureMom,
You expressed much better than I could the frustrations of player's injuries that many on this site have experienced. It is absolutely amazing the resiliency that these young men have. My son, also a catcher, was hit by a pitch, 5th game of the season, misdiagnosed, tried to play through it for 4 weeks, and now has a plate in his hand. As you stated," ...he told us not to worry, that in fact he had learned so much about himself, his mental game and life." I could have sworn you were listening on the phone when my son called me.
I sincerely wish the absolute best and speedy recovery for your son. By the way, you stated, "I don't post much, mostly because I feel I have so much to learn and often because everyone else seems to say it so much better." That logic doesn't hold water anymore. You "done" good and thank you for sharing your experience.

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