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Originally posted by theEH:
SK, never worry about the Naysayer's,
Just keep playing the game.
That’s a lot easier for us “more mature” folks to say, than it often is for those still able to bend over and touch their toes to live through.
I couldn’t even guess how many time I said either those exact words or something very close to it to not just my rugrat, but to a heck of a lot of other kids like him, who didn’t fit that profile.
Some of it is ok, up to a point. I never had any problem with the kids having to suffer a few indignities to earn their bones. But after you’ve told you child for the umpteenth time to just ignore the ignorant fools, and that he’ll just have to play better than everyone else like he’s always had to, it gets very old.
Not only does it get old, it makes some of us pretty bitter too, and it sure doesn’t give the kids the best outlook on life.

Also, it wouldn’t be so bad if the Naysayers weren’t the ones in control, but that’s seldom the case.
If there’s on common thread to many of the posts I make, its that the primary thing I want to see coaches at all levels do, is to keep as many kids playing the game as possible. Not because I want to see anyone given a free pass, but because everyone grows at a different rate, learns at a different rate, grasps different concepts at a different rate, and most importantly, mentally matures at a different rate.
There are far too many kids who could play at 16, 18, or 20 if they had stayed with it, but got chased away from the game because they didn’t fit some profile some coach had when they were “X” years old.