I can't believe that almost a year has gone by since the 2004 draft, seems like yesterday we were talking to scouts about the possibility of our son being drafted. For those who are going through that process, I understand what you are going through, and unless one has been in the situation, it is very hard to understand. There will be many people telling you what your son should or shouldn't do, it is a very personal decision. My husband tried to stay out of much of the process, because he would have gone to play pro ball for a dollar, he did not want to influence his son one way or the other. He did listen to what he had to say when my son had questions, but he never told him what he should do when my son asked. It was his son's future, not his, he rode the ship with him , but he would not tell him which way to steer.
On the other hand, I was more vocal with my thoughts. I never desired to play ball as a professional , so I was a little more objective. Oh some people thought I did, because I felt that he should get a nice bonus (regardless of whether he was worth it or not), to give up Clemson. And I knew that he was just like any other boy in his situation, he wanted to hear his name called out on draft day. But I also felt that he may someday get another crack at it, he was smart and had a lot going for him.
I am not going to post my thoughts on college vs pro, each situation is different, I only knew what I thought was best for my son, not anyone elses. If you would want my perspective you can send a pm.
I just wanted you all to know that if you are going through the process, I am thinking of how your emotions are running as a parent who knows that their young son may have a very hard choice to make in the near future, for his future.
Best of luck.
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