I was texting with my (adult) son yesterday. I thought of this thread idea since he mentioned he ran into someone about a month ago from his high school whose family moved just because of basketball. Then I recollected there used to be posters on this site who asked if moving for baseball is a good idea. Also, when my son was fourteen our high school baseball program blew. It completely flipped starting with soph year when he made varsity with a new coach who knew his stuff. At fourteen and fifteen privates were recruiting my son. We looked but decided he should stay at the high school. The high school’s gifted program was as good as these top privates academics and 12K less per year after scholarship. I was amused two offered 50% academic scholarships if he agreed to play at least two sports.
Our high school had a very good basketball program. As good as it was there were two other high schools in the conference that were traditionally better over the years. Since our very large district received seven of the sixteen state slots it was common for two and sometimes three of these schools to make states even if they didn’t win their conference or district. One of the schools sent the most players to D1 and had three play in the NBA.
I liked the dad. But he had a rainbows and unicorns view of his son’s ability. He saw the NBA in his rose colored glasses. A lot changes in basketball in high school as some kids become 6’6” and others stop growing. His kid dominated 14u then stopped growing at 6’1”. I always told kids and parents when I coached 14u and below travel unless a kid is going to grow to be at least 6’4” he better the the best dribbler or shooter in town. He can only play point or off guard. Big kids can play just because they’re big and can rebound.
Thr kid got “screwed (lol)” soph year and didn’t make varsity. They moved to the neighboring powerhouse program with the legendary coach in the next town. After all, the coach at our high school didn’t know what he was doing. The kid made varsity the next two years as a rotation player. He never started. It’s what would have happened had he stayed at our high school. But, to add insult to injury our high school beat them three of four games those two years and a fourth time to eliminate them in district play.