I've got the tweezers!!! ha!
Welcome lazyj to the ladies lounge and to the HSBBW.
First off, I hope you find some relief in knowing that this does happen. Your son is not alone, even though at the time, it sure can feel that way.
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I have also encouraged him to talk to the coach about areas that need improvement and how to go about it.
Has your son taken you up on your advice?
Sometimes its hard to get the boys to go through with this advice.
( kinda like getting the husband to stop and ask for directions. ha!)
But if he approaches his coach correctly,..with a " what do I need to work on " attitude and not a " why arent you playing me more " attitude, he should get the coaches attention.
Coach isn't going to put a kid on the roster just for the sake of filling up the roster form.
He had to have seen something in your son that he wanted for his team.
Remember, were talking men and communication skills, not always an easy scenario. Nudge your son to take the first step and talk to his coach. This in my opinion shows maturity.
Coach should recognize this as a postive move on your son's behalf. Shows him that he's a go-getter who WANTS to play and is willing to work for it.
Shows that sitting and simply wearing the jersey isnt enough.
Your son wants more.
Have him go out there and get it!!!
Have your son ask the coach for drills he can work on in his spare time. Make sure your son is arriving first on the field and leaving last. Make sure he's helping with the field and dugout. Heck,...have him polish the baseballs with Pledge and hand waterproof the bench,...if thats what it takes. ( ha!)
Seriously,... let him show the coach he means business.
We have a young kid ( sophomore ) on our JV team who is the smallest kid out there. He's also the loudest, the most postitive and encouraging player towards his team mates.
Gives every throw and at bat his ALL!! Flies on and off the field. If he makes an error, he jumps up and says " give me another coach ". You cant help take notice of this kid.
Coach has him in the line up for todays first Varsity game. His skill level may not be quite there, but his attitude is leaps ahead of most. It has made an obvious impression on everyone. Myself included. Hustle and willingness count. Take your scenario and make something happen.
Even if he doesnt get more playing time, he will have made a good name for himself,..and thats a positive that not many can disagree with!
I wish him the very very best!!!
Gooo get em lazyj's son,...go get em and show em what he's made of!!!!
Keep us posted!!!!