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I had just finished responding to an email from one of my Seniors on last year's club. Nice stuff. How college was going... followed by missing friends, HS, and our program. Fourth email this week from those seniors (6 in number). The emails were all much the same. Some info on the kid but more asking about how I was doing and how were the "Boyz" doing. They always cared more about the "Boyz" than they did about their stats or themselves. Heck, they even identified themselves as "Coach B's Boy" or "Coach Bugg's Boy." As a coach, it has been hard on me losing this group. This crew has been with me since I came here. They attended my camps all the way through. Four of the six Seniors last year were three year starters. I miss them coming in each hour with some story or just to pull a fast one on me. After sending a reply to today's email, I went to the cafeteria for a quick salad. There I saw the real impact of these kid's graduation. Some of you might recall how proud I was of this group when last year they went to a handicapped young man and invited him to sit with them during lunch. He ate with those boys each day. They took his tray back and he really had a good time with them. I remember them going rocks paper sissors each day to take that tray back. I'd laugh seeing it. I was/am so very proud of them. Well, today, there was that young man sitting by himself. Oh, this year's baseball team was sitting at it's normal table. The baseball team has held that table for 8 years. However, this year's group has not gone over to make the invite to this young man. I sure wish they would. For sure, this demonstrated to me again how blessed I was last year to be around such good men.

"Failure depends upon people who say I can't."  - my dad's quote July 1st, 2021.  CoachB25 = Cannonball for other sites.

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i know exactly how you feel coach. my 7 seniors last year were like my own kids the last 3 years. constantly coming in and out of my room, calling me, etc. miss them. they were a special group - very active in student council and anything else going on at the school.
i hope our youngins grow into that same type family over the next couple of years.
What happens is that each team has it's own identity. The Seniors that leave each year have an influence on that following group but to what extent, I just don't know. Naturally, there are teams and players you grow to like more than others. That is human nature. Molding a team into a contending team each year really is based upon creating a system where their identities fit into a know value system conducive to winning.
CoachB: Looks like you raised a crop to be proud of. This year's group makes last year's look all the better.

The analog to your story is what the senior players go thru when the coach gets canned prior to their last season. My guy is in that position now, knowing nothing about the new guy. After 3 years with the former coaches, I know he misses the he11 out of them, and we haven't even started yet!
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windmill, I have been in that postion as the new coach. It was extremely hard on the kids. They really liked their old coach but he moved on to greener pastures. All they knew of me was my reputation. I felt so badly for my new seniors because they were hurt in the process and felt betrayed. Some advice if I may:

  • Stay Loyal to the old coach. He coached them for 3 years. Loyalty is a good quality. I also think you can become loyal to the new coach WITHOUT betraying the old coach.
  • Have them write some concerns down and go to the new coach. I told my new players to do this. I was amazed at the questions. I answered each question as fair as I could without having seen them play.
  • Whether they like or dislike the change, its their senior year. Make the most of it and have FUN.
  • Give the new guy a chance. Don't compare. What you have is what you have.
  • Maintain a good work ethic. This grabs the eye of a new coach the most.


I want to add one more thing. I had several of my former players at my old school call me when I came here. I really loved talking to them. We are still friends today. Most of them worked my first baseball camp here. That, in my opinion, is not disloyal. It is part of a friendship.

Just some thoughts off the top of my head.
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