I appreciate all of the answers/advice so far in this thread. Good to see some newer posters and also some of the grizzled vets as well. Lots of great thoughts and ideas from PG's to reclassification along with staying academically focused if attending a JUCO. Also keeping in mind the goal(s) of the student-athlete or in my son's case while looking at the potential 40 year impact of the degree/network/relationships one can make in college.
When starting a thread I try to be more general in nature of the question and player information so it can be searched and utilized by others in the future. This situation is one that my son is dealing with right now. I will get more a little more specific on his situation, my thoughts, and where we are at this point (not marketing but making a generic post more realistic):
Background on my kid: 6'4"/190, LHH C/OF/CIF, 33 ACT & 3.7 gpa with rigor from what academic people think is a top private school in our state.
*PBR stats: 7.06 - 60, pos velos (77/82/82), trackman exit velo 90/95 (avg/high). All stats are higher later in summer but not PBR verified (whatever any of that is worth). *Son is slightly above average in the field but his #1 tool is his bat and athletic ability (and he is still a boy physically). *He played on a team with a national schedule for the first time this past summer (albeit limited). Also made AZ Fall Classic Academic team (nothing came of it for him) *Hamate bone injury/misdiagnosis/removal all spring and into summer meant zero HS baseball and only 4 National tournaments this summer in July (Grand Park, Lakepoint, Creekside, and The Rock). Zero batting practice all spring/summer (too much lingering pain from BP to be able to hit in games) and ended up hitting .300 over 50 ab's. Hit at Showball in August (in pain), then took 3 weeks off of hitting then hit at a specific prospect camp in end of August that he was invited to attend (school chose final 2 offers from camp). Did not hit well for him at either place and Doc recommended 2 months of no hitting to heal trauma around original injury so started that Sept 1. See Doc tomorrow for update #1.
2 best options for son on table today are:
(1) HA-D3 that does not have athletic spots (like the NESCAC does) where he is not essentially guaranteed acceptance but coach said wants him and will walk his application to admissions with zero guarantees. Counselor at kid's school is fairly confident son will get accepted.
(2) JUCO in Iowa in a strong conference with that consistently places kids in D1 (I think 10+ from last years team) and other 4 year schools with what appears to be a great group of coaches. Son knows a couple of kids on the team this year and will most likely know a few more that would attend next year. They have offered him the most they are able to offer athletically (that is our understanding) and have not put a time frame on that offer.
I am thankful we do not have to make any decisions today but will likely have to make first decision by the end of this month (potentially to ED to HA-D3). Son visits school for second time later this week to watch a practice, meet assistant/hitting coach, meet with admissions, take regular student campus tour, and show campus to mom (important!!!). Son continues to eat, sleep, lift, repeat while waiting for the go ahead to start to hit again.
As a 50-ish year old ex athlete who is comfortable in his career I am truly conflicted on the correct path for my son. I believe that academics matter but also believe that there are other things that matter a lot as well. Work ethic, being intellectually curious, networking, relationships, and integrity. While my kid is not a networker he is truly liked everywhere he is in his daily life and people come out of the woodwork wherever we go to greet/connect with my kid because they like him. He has his baseball peeps (from all walks of life) and his buds at school that are a truly diverse group of boys (mostly nerdy kids who are in to programming, own e-commerce businesses, trade stocks/crypto, and like to play poker). There also is value in striving to be excellent and pursuing your dream (playing professional baseball) while you can. I do not want him to look back later in life and regret that he did not go for it with baseball because his dad told him there was a .027% chance of playing professionally and to forget about baseball. I regret 2 athletic decisions I did not choose to follow and still wonder what might have happened...most likely nothing but wish I had pursued them further than I did.
This place is awesome and I am thankful for feedback from y'all and appreciate the ability to talk about these things with you folks. Its been a great gift to me (and indirectly my son) in this process. Great luck to all!!!
*edited for format issues