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Originally posted by fishw5:
I think school made offer to my son too quickly, head coach had not seen him play at all. Other coaches had seen a few games.
This happens all of the time, this is called poor recruiting. FWIW, most head coaches of larger programs don't see many recruits play (unless closer to home or they recruit players themselves), that's generally left up to the people who get paid to do those things. But it is the HC that signs the NLI, so the responsibility falls on him. Most likely he hasn't done a good job at working his numbers when he calls to say he needs your money to give to someone else. JMO.
Too many stories of coaches seeing players play once, not even at all, then many months later realizing they may have too large a roster due to those they thought would get drafted didn't. So who is going to be asked to leave? Many coaches have trouble working the numbers, and their budgets. I hear it's really tough.
There was a coach recruitng my son who had never seen him play, he made an offer over the phone with an official invite, he went by what others (who were good judge of talent and character) said about him. Thos was a consideration on son's list. Then he called to say he had to spend the money elsewhere, he also, I might add, is no longer coaching. What if he had committed?
On the other hand, my son's dream school UM who had been to Omaha that year and had a pitching coaching change, began late in recruiting, the new p coach called to tell him that he couldn't make any judgements or any offer until he personally watched him a few times (but he has been to their camp), as much as that may have hit son the wrong way, it was ll handled teh right way. They did come to a few games, he played on their field in front of the new coach then they called to make an official visit, and discussed scholarships and how they do things, by that time, he had already decided where he wasn't interested he had already established relationships he felt more comfortable with. You will come up against all types of scenerios in recruiting.
There are many coaches that will never pull the NLI if a player gets hurt, they can afford the redshirt if needed because they have planned well. Years ago they never pulled your scholarship before you came, you just showed up and if there were too many after fall practice they told you they didn't see you doing muchin teh way playing time at their program, so that would allow a transfer with no penalty. Now consider it a favor if they let you know before you set foot on campus and before July 1, so you can explore other options at D1 without penalty or head to JUCO for a year ( and unfortunetly start the process all over again but that is just the way it is in a game where it has become a big business).
I know some people swear by sending DVD and player websites, that should be for introduction only, but my advice is to never jump on an offer until the coach really knows how you can play, and just one game doesn't prove much for some. And don't jump because you feel the need to sign early or this is the school you always wanted to play for. Waiting for the right opportunity, the right coach, the right fit is worth it, even if you have to wait longer and watch everyone else sign or commit early.