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I will be at the fields everyday watching and enjoying my time with him and the whole experience.
J23, I hope I can provide a perspective that won't sound anything but supportive of your son and what you want for him at the Stanford Camp.
When our son was invited to the camp, I responded exactly as you did.
Over a period of time, our son left little suggestions about my enjoying the "whole experience" which I didn't really pick up.
Finally, about 2 weeks before the Camp,he was pretty blunt. He would be there playing and he knew exactly why.
He didn't want us there...period.
The reason as he explained it was that no matter how supportive we might be as parents, he would feel additional pressures to perform knowing his parents were watching. He didn't want that.
This was his camp. This would help him determine how he matched up against some of the best competition nationally. He would feel enough competitive drive without that "edge" that came from knowing your parents are in the stands.
Well, we didn't go. He played great and the Camp helped him meet the Coach who changed his baseball life and college opportunities.
So, for whatever it is worth, for our son, this was his camp. If he succeeded, he did it on his own. If he didn't succeed, it was on his own. It was a point of separation that I so much appreciated.
I became of better parent and better fan.
Our son became a much better player and proved that to an awful lot of people from that Camp until injury ended in career in Milb.