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Originally posted by Midlo Dad:
"The 'sorting out' process has pretty much run its course for my guys."
I regret to inform you that you are mistaken.
Maybe I misunderstood your post? I simply meant that none of my current players are struggling on the big fields against solid (even much older) competition.
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Trust me, your team will head in many different directions in the coming years. The best I can do is warn you that is coming so that you will prepare yourself.
I realize there is a desire to keep such wonderful teams together. I also realize that you cannot, you will not, and you probably should not even try -- since trying means you would have to impose one prescribed path upon a number of players for whom it may not be the right fit. It's not a "one size fits all" world.
Oh I definitely understand what you are saying. At this age many personalities are changing and emerging. I also understand that in the next year or so, at least several of my guys may see their "peak" (Physically at least) and that will effect things as well. And I definitely agree with the "one size fits all" comment.
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What I would suggest you do is spend the next year thinking about the direction you and your son want to go. Then make it clear that you plan to take your team in that direction. Let whoever doesn't want that move on to other teams, and then go get other players whose goals align with yours. Then things will stay happy all around.
In the meantime, play ball and don't worry too much about tournaments and far-flung travel. None of that from the 15u year really comes to much.
Thanks for the post and the thought put into it, the effort is appreciated. Trust me, my son and I have talked a lot recently. I think it was started by a conversation we had a while back, where he had a couple of nagging little injuries (not baseball related) and he appeared to get a bit discouraged. We seriously talked about the future and whether or not he even wanted for baseball to play a part, IF that became an option. I let him know that I would not be his source of motivation. If he wanted to hit, or throw, or workout, I would do everything I could to help, but I wasn't going to be pushing him anywhere. I told him that the EFFORT and the DRIVE has to come from him. I also made very clear to him that it was HIS baseball and not mine.
I honestly don't know if that conversation played a part, but my son has seriously turned up the heat in putting the work in, on his own. I think a length of physical therapy helped inspire him, since his two PT guys are former college athletes, and he's been REALLY encouraged by the positive change in his body as he has worked out.
I know that MANY things can change in a year. As far as my team, I will have open tryouts again right before Winter workouts start. I always do this. And as much as I enjoy coaching, I am a FATHER first. So if a better opportunity for my son shows itself, I will make the best decision for my son the priority.
I honestly planned on staying pretty much local, except for a the East Cobb tourney, and possibly the Triple Crown at Myrtle Beach. To us, since I have family close to there, it becomes more of a vacation with baseball added in.