VA Dad:
welcome aboard. I think I relate to your situation pretty well. I have a player in a D-1 school was also an outfielder. Some of what you're dealing with has to do with not simply the visibility he might or might not have created for himself, but also to do with his position. Our experience, and I think that of many of the posters here, has been that recruiting tends to go follow the sequence of pitchers, catchers, middle infielders, and outfielders after everthign else is filled and as Tiger Paw Mom has correctly noted, depending on the skill the team might be looking for. If your son has the skills capapable of competing and being successful, you will probalby need to guide him to search out the opportunity for himself or enlist the aid of folks who can help him fulfill his dream. True enough, Virginia has many excellent colleges and universities, but it also has some very good D1 baseball programs in some very competitive conferences - 2 in the ACC, several in the CAA, the Big South come to mind. The D3 schools are also very competitive academic and baseball programs. CNU, HSC and RMC as well as Virginia Wesleyn all are good programs or are on. All of that is to say that there may not be a need for his skills in the D1 or D3 schools in Va. You may need to think outside the box in terms of potential schools, and look at different schools and try and determine what the schools needs are. It took a while to fully embrace the notion that in baseball recruiting "one's man's treasure is another man's trash" really does apply. Pitchers, it seems, can find a place, position players, especially outfielders, need to work a bit harder. I think you might want to get the feedback from the PG and Blue-Gray folks on where they see your son fitting in. I think that would be a good starting point. I didn't pick up on any mention of a legion or high school coach's involvement in using their contacts to help find a spot. Unfortunately, you probably need to get someone's honest assessment where your son fits in, and again, just know that some of the feedback might not be what you want to hear, but if used properly will help shape expectations.
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, just know that many, many players don't get "recruited" in the traditional sense of the word. As noted all over these boards, money is is short supply, and getting a scholarship may mean anything from a few hundred dollars to a few thousand with you figureing out the rest of the cost. point being there are many many players receiving who get nothing beyond an opportunity to play and a team hat. We learned that there tends to be a real dead period that comes after the NLI date where teams fall back and begin to re-assess their years for the following year based on fall ball. Activity picks up again in the spring as coaches better understand who is going to be drafted, transfer, likely to quit, or who they don't see as progressing, and then they go out back inot the pol to see who is still availalbe to fill in the holes on their rosters.
I'd suggest that you gather information about you son and start looking around. Your son needs to contact coaches, epxress interest in the schools and programs and put together tapes, a baseball resume and make the effort to be identified. not everyone is found, some have to make themselves known. think out side the box as the aying goes, but understand at the end of the day, going to college is supposed to be about getting an education, so look to schools with an eye of having that school's diploma. While baseball is important to our kid's self esteem and identity, most of our sons and daughters will end up making more money outside of baseball than the rest will inside of baseball.
I might suggest looking at
www.collegebaseballinsider.comto and follow the link to the leagues. It will take you to the team pages for the different conference schools so you can broaden your thinking a bit. We found tht very helpful to help us identify schools