When my son made it clear he wanted to play baseball in college, there were many detractors. Some teammates told him he wasn't good enough, some parents warned that he would be wasting his years in college, owing his life to the school, when everyone knows he's not good enough to make it to the pros. While he proceeded undaunted, sometimes I wondered if it was a mistake to not try to disuade him from linking his college choice with baseball.
I am in florida watching at the russmatt tournament. I arrived yesterday, his team was off watching a spring training game, so I just watched college baseball without any of the tension of having a rooting interest. At the complex six games are going on at one time, varying degrees of talent, mostly D III but a smattering of DIs.
Here is what I noticed. All these players are having fun. They love the game and playing it just rounds out who they are. Will they play professionally? I doubt it. Do they owe their life to the school? Don't think so. I do know they have that look on their faces that says, "I am a baseball player -- I play baseball".
My unsolicited advice -- if your student is in high school and he wants to play in high school, help him find the right fit.
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