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When my son made it clear he wanted to play baseball in college, there were many detractors. Some teammates told him he wasn't good enough, some parents warned that he would be wasting his years in college, owing his life to the school, when everyone knows he's not good enough to make it to the pros. While he proceeded undaunted, sometimes I wondered if it was a mistake to not try to disuade him from linking his college choice with baseball.

I am in florida watching at the russmatt tournament. I arrived yesterday, his team was off watching a spring training game, so I just watched college baseball without any of the tension of having a rooting interest. At the complex six games are going on at one time, varying degrees of talent, mostly D III but a smattering of DIs.

Here is what I noticed. All these players are having fun. They love the game and playing it just rounds out who they are. Will they play professionally? I doubt it. Do they owe their life to the school? Don't think so. I do know they have that look on their faces that says, "I am a baseball player -- I play baseball".

My unsolicited advice -- if your student is in high school and he wants to play in high school, help him find the right fit.
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This last week-end watching (actually watching warm-ups) @ a college baseball game I once again realized how magical college baseball can be for kids that absolutely love the game and want to play, regardless of playing after college or not. They are having the time of their lives, hardship and all. Classes are hard, travel takes them away from campus and classes, but I could see how much fun they were having.

As a parent that helped and supported my son along the way to achieve his dream of playing college ball, it sure looked to me like all the hard work and sacrifice was worth it.

Make no mistake, there are tons of sacrifices on the players part. Work-outs @ 5:30 am, studying on the road, giving up some other sports (like snowboarding), not socializing as much as other college students, etc. But, looking @ these players it looked like they wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

Personally, as a parent, I realized it's not all about the win-loss record. It's about the experience, the teammates, the life lessons, the friendships, the relationships with the coaches, and achieving their dreams through lots of hard work.

If you make it only about the W-L record it's not always going to be so much fun. And it will trivialize all the other important aspects of playing college ball. There's nothing better as a parent than seeing your kid working hard but having fun, and getting a college education.

So, for all those hs and younger parents do your part to help your student-athlete become successful. But, they have to really want it themselves and earn it.
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Personally, as a parent, I realized it's not all about the win-loss record. It's about the experience, the teammates, the life lessons, the friendships, the relationships with the coaches, and achieving their dreams through lots of hard work.

If you make it only about the W-L record it's not always going to be so much fun. And it will trivialize all the other important aspects of playing college ball. There's nothing better as a parent than seeing your kid working hard but having fun, and getting a college education.

So, for all those hs and younger parents do your part to help your student-athlete become successful. But, they have to really want it themselves and earn it


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Personally, as a parent, I realized it's not all about the win-loss record. It's about the experience, the teammates, the life lessons, the friendships, the relationships with the coaches, and achieving their dreams through lots of hard work.

If you make it only about the W-L record it's not always going to be so much fun. And it will trivialize all the other important aspects of playing college ball. There's nothing better as a parent than seeing your kid working hard but having fun, and getting a college education.


I can't believe other parents would actually tell a kid he's not good enough. You surely can see a player might not be pro material, but there are so many levels of college baseball that I'm sure mist players could find a fit if they apply themselves.

Plus, playing a sport in school is so much more than trying to reach the next level. The player will learn time management skills, multi-tasking, working with others, working for others, dealing with both success and adversity, etc. Sounds like a list of skills they'll need in the work world.

Thanks to Netflix, I have recently become a fan of the show Lost. One character, John Locke, had a line that fits here perfectly...

"Don't tell me what I can't do!"
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