While his parents do not post here as far as I know, a very good friend and former HS teammate of my younger son was drafted in the 2nd round (#70) by the Rockies yesterday.
Alex Balog, Univ. of San Francisco, RHP.
From my point of view, Alex is a TREMENDOUS example...both parents and player...of how to do it "right." He is also a great example for us other parents who suffer from Youth baseball and HS baseball anxiety.
I've known Alex since he was about 9 or 10 and coached him at 12. Always big for his age, Alex was a clunky catcher who could hit the ball a country mile and slog into 2nd base. His father would not let him pitch...which we fully respected. He could barely make all star teams.
In HS Alex played 2 sports (water polo and baseball). Alex did not make varsity baseball until his junior year and that was the right decision by the coach. As a junior, he was, at best the #3 pitcher on his HS team. Basically, he pitched in spots and I can even remember a game where the varsity coaches sent him back to JV to pitch a game as a Junior...just to get innings. No complaints...not a peep.
But you could see it coming.
As a senior, he was dominant...yet still a little clunky. He was his team's co-MVP, the CA Section MVP. He helped his team to a mythical national championship (Perfect Game and Rivals.com). Plenty of scouts saw him pitch and at 6 ft. 6 in., I thought for sure someone would realize that there was a LOT untapped still...plus I had the background to have seen where he was at 12 and where he was at 18.
AMAZING development...that just continued on through college.
In HS he was a solid 90 mph...I hear he's mid 90's now. And I can imagine that there might be more to come.
You see, its not all about making that all star team or making varsity as a freshman...or even a sophomore. Its not about whining to the coach that you're getting hosed. Its not always about getting the big scholarship to the top-20 baseball program. Its about putting your head down, believing in yourself...and having the parents who are patient and believe in you too.
Wonderful young man...polite as can be and a great teammate...and a truly patient and wonderful family.