New topic? Question for the group that's been bothering me for a while, and trying to decide if I should let it go. My son (8th grade, 13U) is really a one sport kid. He played a very little bit of middle school basketball but hated it and only really played because his mom and I pushed him to, which we've stopped. School doesn't have football and he can't stand soccer. He does play a fairly good amount of playground basketball with his friends but that's about it for 'other than baseball'. As we're starting to get ready to get ready for recruiting, I'm wondering if its something that will hurt him later. We want him to be broader and would love it if he played a second sport and wasn't so focused just on baseball, but he's not interested. His coaches too have encouraged him to play something else, to no avail. Anyone else have this issue or thoughts on how much this will impact his recruiting opportunities (should we get that far)? Thanks for any thoughts you have.
BK, what else does he like to do outside of sports? To what extent and how realistic are his baseball goals (you mention recruiting)? Why, specifically, do you think his other coaches encouraged him to play another sport?
Each situation is unique. It is OK if one only loves one sport and that is what they really want to play. Just be careful - often this thought is at least partially in place due to outside influences. At the HS level, we see the full spectrum. There are baseball - only guys who are driven and take care of some of the multi-sport advantages by doing a lot of strength/conditioning and speed/agility work. They are already plenty competitive. There are baseball-only guys who really would have benefited a great deal by playing basketball...agility, endurance, footwork, teamwork, etc. Some would have really benefited from the regimented strength & conditioning of football, along with competing in a more physical environment. But they have to want to play. We also have had plenty who play as many sports as they can and could have excelled more in baseball if they spent a bit more time with it.
There are other ways to supplement the advantages of other sports if the individual doesn't like them. For example, if your son is REALLY into baseball and has realistic aspirations, he is getting close to the age where he will need to get serious about strength/conditioning and speed/agility and he may flourish in a training room with his baseball aspirations driving him. He may also find satisfaction in other activities that aren't necessarily school sports - wakeboarding, surfing, trail running, rec in-line hockey, mountain biking, swimming, etc.
I am a big proponent of balance. I think you are doing the right thing encouraging but not forcing other interests and activities. What ever you do, though, don't allow him to "hate" the academic aspect .
BTW, I think the premise of this "2020ish" thread is great and it seems to have a lot of traction. I would advise, however, that there are certain topics such as this one where the group or poster is likely to benefit much more with feedback from those who have recently gone through the experience and have seen the outcome as opposed to just talking among those who are right in the middle of it and trying to figure it out. The thread title will deter some who are outside of this age group from taking a look.