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Originally posted by jaysdad:
Our experience with rec ball is that you never had the same coach over the 5 or 6 years he played. And yes, they almost always had a son playing and fairness wasn't always at the top of the list. The teaching skills varied considerbly too!
To this point it doesn't matter. Talent can't be held back.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
He is in the 12-15 age bracket now.
No. he's a thirteen year old. If you start comparing him to fifteen year olds both of you could end up disappointed. From 13U to 14U and 14U to 16U (son skipped 15U) summer ball and 18U fall ball, I watched the speed of the game and the challenges change rapidly. Take it one year at a time.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
I am looking at the formal training as a way to keep going with the skills he already has. I will be working primarily with the hitting and fielding.
He's not going to lose the skills he has. What is important is building on them. As the game gets faster he must improve.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
He likes to catch and wants to pitch but I have no plans of pursuing that area at this juncture.
Let's not forget whose game this is. It's your son's game. It's not your game. You don't make these kinds of decisions. It's your son's decision. Your job it to support the decisions.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
How do you spot a pitcher-to-be?
You'll see a kid who enjoys being on the mound. At thirteen you don't know what kind of arm he will have. You can only judge his arm relative to his age. At fifteen my son hit 14mph faster (82) than when he was in 13U (68). He was also nine inches taller.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
I see him more as an outfielder throwing the long ball into to home plate than I do as a pitcher who is great at control.
What does your son see. It's his game.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
I think you have the idea now as to what I am up against.
With all the "I's" rather than "my son wants" in your post I'm getting a better feel for what your son is up against.
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Originally posted by jaysdad:
If my son is to have a "career" as a ball player, sooner or later you must switch over to school ball and now (spring 09) might be the time to try. He would be 13 and his first tryout at school ball. He is in 7th grade and would be competing with both 7th and 8th graders for a spot on the middle school team.
Your son won't have a career in baseball until he's being paid to play. Right now he's a kid who enjoys playing ball. That's all my oldest playing college ball is doing. That's all my youngest in high school is doing.
Your son should play the game because he enjoys it. He should attempt to improve every year because he wants to keep playing. He should keep playing until the game tells him (cut) he can't play anymore.
And you need to see it more as his game, not our game. You're a support mechanism. You've had your chance to play. Now it's his turn. Good luck.