On the link above, I really liked these 2 sections. I think a lot of parents and players are afraid to ask this stuff for fear of upsetting the apple cart, but I think they are really good ones to ask:
Reason 15: Many parents don’t interview the coach enough, selecting the wrong coach is a huge mistake. My father told me "if the coach doesn't love your skill set you are not going to that school. Most parents don't do this, remember recruiting is a courtship, if the courtship isn't close to perfect the relationship will probably fail. Its the same in selecting a coach/mentor. You are not playing for a school you are playing for a coach, if that coach isn't extremely confident in you as a student athlete you are going to have a miserable college athletic experience. Interview the coach a couple of times on the telephone and in person.
Ask the coach:
*What do you like/love about my skills?
*Why do you think I will succeed at your school?
*Where do you see me in two years?
This is your decision, this has to be right. Select the best coach to help you succeed. This coach will be your mentor for the next 4-5 years.
You need to make the right choice if you want a rewarding college athletic experience.
Reason 16: Many schools and certain teams have a very definite culture, that culture might not fit the college athlete’s personality or the athlete's work ethic. Ask the coach about the school's and team's culture.
Questions like:
*What kind of athlete succeeds the most at this school and on your team?
*What is expected of me?
Without asking these questions the athlete's career usually ends badly.
***Reasons 14-16 could all be avoided if the family and student athlete:
*Do not panic and make a quick decision on a college selection.
*Thoroughly research each school and each coach.
*Don’t make a social decision ( a decision that is made to impress your friends or family).
Here is the real truth. no one cares if you are playing D1, D2, D3 or NAIA. That’s all ego and those types of decisions never end well.
Ask Yourself:
*Why would you select a coach who does not love your skill set?
*Why would go to a school that you are never going to get off the bench?
College athletics is probably the last time you will play an organized sport under a governing body, make it count. There are no do overs!