Ended up being a super interesting conversation. I finally asked his least favorite and he said BA. In his mind BA is outdated and that OPS is much more relevant to him.
I guess this is where the rubber meets the road...
I've always taken copious high-res photographs during games (t-ball to pro), where players and parents always loved them, there was a small point in HS where it annoyed my son but mostly, he was indifferent (it was a way to keep my mouth shut during games). However, in JUCO it became another thing. He wanted front and both side sequences in a multi-page PDF - my camera at the time did 11 frames per second at 26MP. I'd get a text after the games, "you got those images processed?" After he'd have time to digest them, we'd have a conversation on what he thought and why - occasionally I'd give input but by this time he was schooling me. I helped with technical assistance by overlaying sequences where he was throwing well with those where he wasn't, to look at release points and body position. I continued to take photos until the majors, they won't let me bring in a large zoom or walk to net in any part of the park to take my photos - but 3 of his Topps prospect trading cards are my photos, and that's cool.
Getting back to the topic - I loved baseball, it always held something magic for me and I never wanted anything to change – I was a purist. This held true all the way through college and right up till my son hit a wall in pro ball. Watching the struggle of other kids, but especially his struggles had me only caring about the things he needed and especially being there for emotional support. I won’t pretend to be stats/metrics guru, but I know enough that when he’s talking about those things that are important to his career, I can be a sounding board and advocate. I’ve been a hobby software developer since 15, so when my software engineer son is talking about using a recursive function approach over a more readable looping method, encapsulated micro services, or reducing the transactional load on the AWS servers, I know what he's talking about – I don’t see any difference, I just feel blessed that I’m interacting with my adult children in a way we both value.
Stats and metrics are never going to replace baseball IQ, but if you don’t embrace the changes, you’re not using every advantage available or being as good as you could be. There’s no way for me to adequately explain the differences between the pro levels, other than to say they’re enormous – I had no clue until I watched my son struggle – understanding metrics is an important part of the process. There are other things he does with metrics, but I believe he feels those are a competitive advantage, so I’ll leave those out of this discussion.
Also, as a relief pitchers’ parent I’m all for the ghost runner in extra innings. I’m all for not risking arm health by too many consecutive days throwing, and who wants to watch position players pitch, except maybe their parents…
Sorry for the book!