Texan, all of the other scenerios have been from comments etc. from parent/players/observations of other teams. Plus, I generally really respect certain coaches on this site and I want to pick their brains to see what they would do. This is the first scenerio that has actually been from our school. I think I have a good relationship with our Middle School Coach. However, I am very abrasive and people don't know how to take me. Thus the #2 statement. After seeing this kid take the collar with runners on several times, I went to his Dad and said that between games, send his son over. I asked him several questions such as:
- How do you think your doing now offensively?
- Do you feel comfortable at the plate?
- Why do you think that you are getting around so late on the pitch?
- Do you want me to suggest some changes now that you will have to make in order to play for us next year?
Then, I demonstrated how he was holding the bat in his at bats. I also showed him how we would like for him to hold that bat. I asked him if he were in a dark alley which way would he hold the bat if he felt in danger. Then I asked why. His response demonstrated why he should hold that bat as we coach. I know that the next game, he tore the cover off of the ball and that our Middle School Team won the First Place in the 10 team tournament.
Believe me, in this scenerio, I take full blame for any failings. My Girl was playing in this tournament since it is a combined Softball/Baseball Tournament and 4 fields are used for two days. Therefore, I didn't get a chance to sitdown with the coach. I have emailed him a PowerPoint featuring slides of kids we have coached here for the past 10 years. I explained in that email that coaching the handouts are vital to these young men's success since they will be required to adjust to/know those items contained in all of those handouts. ie, proper fielding, hitting, baserunning, etc. For sure, I need to improve our communication. Again, I just wanted to see what others would post.
I EDITED THIS POST TO ADD THIS, I KNOW THIS YOUNG MAN AND HIS FAMILY AND HAVE BEEN AROUND HIM FOR SEVERAL YEARS. THAT MADE MY DECISION ON WHAT TO DO MUCH EASIER. I WOULD HAVE A HARD TIME PICKING #3. I'VE ALWAYS BEEN ONE TO GET AFTER IT. I DON'T SLEEP WELL LEAVING STONES UNTURNED.