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I'm one of those moms who did not know anything about sports while growing up. My nickname in high school was "whiz kid" and I was too busy working on the school newspaper and attending NHS meetings to bother with "jock" stuff. Fast forward a few years and I married a jock! I cheered him on for several years in his sport of choice (cycling) before he "retired" to focus on our son and his sport of choice -- baseball. Within a couple of years of beginning baseball, son began to shine as a middle-infielder, and as we look back, we have tons of wonderful memories stemming from his All-Star days which went through age 14. Now, he is a high school junior with aspirations to play college ball. I cannot count the hours I have spent on this website alone trying to help him achieve his goal, and I am amazed as I recognize the tremendous learning curve I have achieved in the past year. On Wednesday, son turned 17 and we took him and a couple of buddies to see a minor-league game, the first we had attended in a couple of years. I was astounded as I compared the AA players' skills to my son's skills. There is not that big of a gap anymore, and I realized that my son has quicker hands than the SS who was turning double-plays on the field! My jock husband chuckled as he watched me pore over the program to look at various players' stats and see which colleges they had attended. I watched the whole game fairly intently and took great pleasure in seeing various plays, including a "bomb" of a throw from left field all the way to 1st base. Here I am, a former nerd who used to know nothing about sports, totally absorbed in the great game of baseball. And son gets full credit for my newfound love!
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Infield08, I understand where you're coming from. I've shared before that my son is completely responsible for my love of this wonderful game! Growing up, I watched sports or attended games simply for the socialization. I went to my first MLB game when I was engaged or just married and couldn't stand it! Now, when I remember that experience, I'm amazed at that person!

Baseball has become a large part of my life bringing many friends into my life, giving me one of my favorite past times, paying for a college education for my son, and providing life long memories of so many special things.... most importantly many huge smiles on my son's face!

I may have been a little slow getting there, but there's no one that appreciates this sport more than I..... we're all blessed to be able to share the love for the game in common! Whether it's a life long love or late bloomers like you and I!
When i was about five my dad took me out to watch him and his friends play baseball. I sat in the stands being cared for by all of the "friends girlfriends". I thought the coolest thing was when my dad would slide and get a strawberry. (ok I was 5) As the years went on my dad taught me about the general rules of baseball.
At 14 I had a crush on a boy that played football and baseball. I spent a whole year acting like I did not know anything about the games so that he could "explain" the intracacies of baseball (ok I was 14)
At 21 I fell in love with a baseball player and married him. We argued over plays that were called and the umpires ability to see the ball. Never once did I have to act like I did not know the game. I sat in the stands week days and weekends watching my husband play and learning about the game.
At 33 my son took the field at his first T-ball game and I watched him play and his little brother after him. Today my son plays for a college team and i realize that everyday I love this game more and more and everyday I learn something more about the game.

I am a baseball daughter, old girl friend, wife and mom and look forward to the day that I can say I am a baseball grandma.....just not to soon
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I ... look forward to the day that I can say I am a baseball grandma.....just not to soon


allaboutbaseball, as the mother of a 17-year-old son, I totally agree! Of course, knowing my son, I don't think that day will come anytime soon. In the spring, he dated a girl for 5 weeks and one day, she broke up with him, saying "It's just not working out." He didn't seem too broken up about it, so I wasn't worried. A week later, he casually commented to me, "Mom, I think the whole time Courtney and I were dating, I didn't even spent one dollar on her." To this day, I don't think he realizes that his cheap-skatedness is probably the reason she broke up with him! (I'm not telling him the secret to maintaining good relationships 'til he's about 25 Wink )
allaboutbaseball ....

Funny thing about baseball and girlfriends ... my son's wife knew enough about the game to stay interested when they first started going together. They had some 'interesting' discussions about how involved he was with the game ... you know, the 'all you do is play baseball yada yada yada' stuff that these guys get from young needy teenaged girlfriends. Well, once she realized she had a real winner on her hand (just kidding) ... she really did enjoy the game and has come to know so much more in the 8 years they have been together (61/2 going together and 1 1/2 married). She diescovered last summer that not all baseball wives and girlfriends are alike when she encountered same who actually resented the fact that she went to the games AND WATCHED THEM while the rest of them were chit chatting on the sidelines. They actually told her they couldn't understand how she could be so interested. Perhaps that is why most of them have since broken up with their guys ... gotta have the distaff support or the row is even harder to hoe for these guys.
After returning home from Friday night's Red Sox game with our 11 yr old daughter and her girlfriend my hubby commented on how refreshing it was to be at a game with her rather then her 2 baseball player brothers. Rather than groaning and complaining about the bad plays, lost trade opportunities and the depressing blown game, the girls happily cheered for their favorite players and were optimistic till the bitter end. My daughter proudly waved her "Cuckoo for CoCo" sign through his 2 strikeouts Smile When they arrived home she said "Wow, that was a great game!". She's been carted around to fields since she was born and that's the first time I've heard her utter those words! It was a great father-daughter bonding experience.

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