As I have assisted many times I have always asked what is expected of me and how I can help the coach to build a better program. The word Manager should be just that. He selects, deligates, and oversees the team, but should look to assistants to teach and prepare as well. I have always stepped up and taught during practices, but I always use the term "WE" when explainng a system or approach, that way we all appear to be on the same page. The coach always knew in advance what I was teaching and how to go about it. It should never be a competition between coaches. I have worked for one supreme commander, who only wanted control of everybody and everything. That didn't last for me. The kids need to have confidence in all coaches that they are getting good instruction and if they have a question about the game, they can go to any coach.