I guess we have have some healthy discussion going on in other threads regarding coaching vs parenting. That's good, keeps us all busy when it is slow at work or something to do in the evenings! And I feel partly responsible for some of this "healthy" discussion.
So after all has been said here I have some questions for the HS,summer league coaches that post here. Parents, please let them say what they have to without being attacked (cause we know what that feels like).
Your ace starter pitches on Monday (second week of season)in an important game (he is junior/senior). He comes out of the game somewhere between 90-110 pitches ( I am going with this because parents are posting that amounts for beginning season, this may be the average). Not going to mention whether they won or lost. You have another real important game on Friday. Do you put your ace starter in?
On the flip side, as a parent of that ace starter (who will probably pitch beyond HS), your son's coach decides to use your son on Friday and he pitches a great game with another 90-110 pitches. However, the team loses.
How would you feel about this? Can you seperate your feelings between being a coach as well as being a parent? Would you as a parent not question the coaches decision just because he is the coach (he also made it quite clear no one should question playing time) or would you feel that your son's health is more of an issue than winning and this needs to be addressed?
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