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My dear friends:  You might remember, perhaps not as fondly as I do, last year's record-setting (and mercifully euthanized) 22-page "Elephant in the Room" thread.

When I started that thread I was completely focused on what might happen to the programs my two D3 sons are in. This is a highly personal and completely subjective update.  

While nearly the entire alabaster spheroid flinging free world has found a way to go ahead and play ball as normally as possible, it's official. After several appeals, the bastions of higher ed my kids play at have turned the situation into a jankfest.



'21, wanting as normal a last collegiate semester as possible, is living off- campus with 7 of his 9 senior teammates.  The other two seniors are on campus because their academic work required it. School is not allowing kids to play who currently live off campus.

So, 7 seniors are shut out even though the team is playing. Apoplectic is a good word to use here, a term I apply to myself and not to my son who told me today that while he "empathizes" with me, he is focused on the finance position awaiting him in Beantown.

'23: As explained several times on the site, his school flat out cancelled EVERYTHING related to intercollegiate athletics for the whole year.  His school does not mess around.  

Why use Babar in the thread instead of, say, Manny from "Ice Age?" Well, so relatively few schools have cancelled baseball this spring I thought Babar's size was more appropriate.

When you watch your sons play this spring, please spare a thought for the parents of kids at Claremont-Mudd, Bowdoin, Oberlin, LaVerne, Cal Tech, Occidental, Pomona-Pitzer, Swarthmore, Haverford,  Ivy League, and the many other unnamed parents who have just seen a second consecutive season vanish.

Also, know that we're really happy for the rest of you. Honest.

"Don't be mean now because remember: Wherever you go, there you are..." Buckaroo Banzai

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I am so sorry. Really. This has been a difficult season for some, but they are playing.

Moving forward parents or their players need to be on the phone NOW to find out what are the plans for next fall. I mean, what have they been doing for all these months?

Not allowing seniors living off campus not to play is just ridiculous.

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Brutal stuff Smoke.  You got the double whammy....I empathize.

At Middlebury all the 2022's, and most of the 2023's took the semester off. They're training, lifting, taking a class or two online, and skiing / snowboarding.  Having my son around has been terrific.  Once my son and his teammates made their decision they've never once looked back.  So, it's been a different way of handling not playing this spring... Making the best of a negative situation...

The HC put together a '21 roster of roughly 15 players (mostly freshman) who will play 2-3 games per weekend vs non conference teams starting in April.

The NESCAC is probably afraid of travel because Massachusetts (Tufts in Medford) was a Covid hot spot. The numbers are way down. Everything is opening up. A couple of days ago I walked from MGH-Brigham in Longwood to Harvard Ave to Commonwealth Ave, down Newbury Street, Quincy Market and back to North Station. The streets were not crowded. But they were active again. There were people at restaurants. It’s the most normal Boston has appeared in a year. The only dead area was the Boston University campus.

Gov, Amherst and some other Nescac teams are on Middlebury's schedule, too. Wonder if Leonard is gonna add midweek games with the non conference guys.

Tufts is playing Trinity 8 (!) times (home and home and home and home double headers), Bates 4X, Colby 4x.  All 7 inning games. The NESCAC site even has a championship weekend listed.

RJM, with things opening up, does that mean people are going back to their offices, too?

I may have mentioned this before but my HS kid, a '22, has a 7 game season and parents and other fans aren't allowed to go to the games.

Does that qualify as a triple whammy?  Thank God I don't have more kids.

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@RJM posted:

The NESCAC is probably afraid of travel because Massachusetts (Tufts in Medford) was a Covid hot spot. The numbers are way down. Everything is opening up. A couple of days ago I walked from MGH-Brigham in Longwood to Harvard Ave to Commonwealth Ave, down Newbury Street, Quincy Market and back to North Station. The streets were not crowded. But they were active again. There were people at restaurants. It’s the most normal Boston has appeared in a year. The only dead area was the Boston University campus.

That's a heck of a walk. How long did that take? My son and I flew into Logan at the end of June last year and made our way to the North Station. It was weird how deserted it was. The only guy on the T was a homeless guy with no legs, no shirt, a loin cloth, and smoking two cigarettes at one time

Gov, Amherst and some other Nescac teams are on Middlebury's schedule, too. Wonder if Leonard is gonna add midweek games with the non conference guys.

Tufts is playing Trinity 8 (!) times (home and home and home and home double headers), Bates 4X, Colby 4x.  All 7 inning games. The NESCAC site even has a championship weekend listed.

RJM, with things opening up, does that mean people are going back to their offices, too?

I may have mentioned this before but my HS kid, a '22, has a 7 game season and parents and other fans aren't allowed to go to the games.

Does that qualify as a triple whammy?  Thank God I don't have more kids.

Smoke, that's news to me.  They just posted the makeshift roster in the past week... Edit: just saw it for the first time.  Not much of anything was posted a week ago.  Thanks for heads up... I didn't think Midd HC would want to compete against conference colleges because of week roster.

You definitely qualify for tripple whammy!!

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Does that qualify as a triple whammy?  Thank God I don't have more kids.

You got the triple whammy.  At least your youngest is not a senior.  I kind of feel that this year's juniors came out the best, if there is such a thing:  they already had more than a year in college/HS, and they will have a semi-normal senior year (we hope).

I'm following HSBBWebbers' college teams, and teams of my son's friends, and our high school team.  Literally everyone else is playing baseball.  And, my youngest has just made the HS varsity golf team, so now I'm a golf mom - is there a High School Golf forum???

That's a heck of a walk. How long did that take? My son and I flew into Logan at the end of June last year and made our way to the North Station. It was weird how deserted it was. The only guy on the T was a homeless guy with no legs, no shirt, a loin cloth, and smoking two cigarettes at one time

I didn’t keep track. I walked further. I took the commuter rail to North Station and walked to MGH-Brigham in Longwood before the described walk. I had my second shot yesterday. I met my uncle at Zaftigs on Harvard Ave for an early dinner. Since there were breaks I wasn’t thinking about time.

I’m in reasonable shape from busting it on six and ten mile bike trips. This was about a ten mile walk. My hips were stiff yesterday. But once on my bike I was fine. Now that the weather is better it’s time to expand the bike trips to 15-18 with a 40+ once a week.

North Station is for North Shore commuter rail and Amtrak from Maine. In the winter this year there were only street people in there. One tried to jump me in the men’s room. He wanted my backpack. I made the mistake of having a bottle of Scotch sticking out I had received for my birthday.

I didn’t enjoy getting hit. But he didn’t enjoy how many times I hit him back and eventually ran off. I applied Butch Cassidy’s “rules for a knife fight” .... there aren’t any rules. I was kicking too. I had a Glock in my backpack. But guns are for life threatening situations.

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@9and7dad posted:

Pretty tough to get a carry permit in Massachusetts.  Good for you.

I was advised when I purchased a gun it’s not much harder to get a conceal/carry permit than just a gun permit. It’s a lot harder to get a conceal/carry permit after the fact. I originally got it in PA after someone threatened my life and was spotted parked outside my kid’s school. It was the ex boyfriend of a woman I was dating. He flipped out when finding out she was moving in. White trash? No. Wall Street investment banker.

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RJM, with things opening up, does that mean people are going back to their offices, too?

The rules changed on Monday. I had to go in for a Covid shot.** It’s also been in the 60’s. It was a good day to walk around. The last time I was walking around in the city was the end of January. There just hasn’t been much reason to go into the city.

** I’ve had no reaction to two Pfizer shots. My GF had no reaction to the J&J shot. My daughter had really bad reactions to her two Moderna shots. She was so sick she missed a day of work after the shot. She dragged herself to work the rest of the week. She’s 32. As a prosecutor she’s considered an officer of the court and a first responder. A nurse told me the shots can be tough on younger people.

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@RJM posted:

If BC, UMass, UMass-Lowell, Merrimack, Holy Cross and Northeastern can travel and play baseball there’s no reason why Ivies and NESCACs in the area can’t be playing.

It's called poor planning. As soon as everything shut down coaches took to zoom with NCAA D1 baseball, their conferences, to talk and plan about fall 2020 and 2021. It was a LOT of work, and most everyone has made it work, along with other sports.

Or they just didnt give a crap.

Sad.

Of course everyone from the top down knew that baseball was safe to play.  What happened at those schools was not due to poor planning, or to a lack of desire to play.  It was because the schools were not letting all students on campus (and have mostly residential campuses), and most important, that they were restricting travel for academics (no academic visitors to campus) and non-athletic extra-curriculars, and didn't think they should make an exception for athletics.  Not to mention Los Angeles county wouldn't allow schools to open (although I have wondered how USC and UCLA are doing it).

It really does suck that if students chose to live off campus, they aren't allowed to play, but those who chose to live on campus can.  Having said that, at least they did have a choice.

Many schools did not have on campus classes, but athletes on and off campus took online classes and attended practice. Come spring many from different schools were given choices. Most were online, as this kept the athletes together.

It took TONS of planning which involved state, county, city as well as medical staff for advisement. I understand the issue in CA and LA but we had some serious covid here in FL and it worked. I strongly believe others could have as well, but obviously not. It also takes a lot of money. Testing alone 3 times a week for a full staff is very expensive. I am sure that a lot of factors went into decisions. The living off campus sounds like a good excuse NOT to plan ahead. So is travel. We as well as others, played one program that traveled, by bus for weeks to play top RPI teams and now 3 or 4 in RPI. What a great plan!

@SoCal OG posted:

In addition to city, county and state specific issues, the above statement is probably the biggest factor.  

I remember reading last fall the cost was $100 per student, but I am assuming most schools have found a less expensive option.

Remember many  have  medical schools. Could cut down on costs.

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Especially after Cornell, Indiana, etc. showed in the fall that it could be done.  There's no excuse for the spring.  The California schools claimed they tried, but LA wouldn't let them.  The schools that closed recruit a more national student population than many others, and didn't want students travelling all over the country.  But Cornell's most persuasive argument was that they calculated that students were at more risk staying in their home communities with no testing, than coming and living off-campus with frequent testing.

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