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Originally posted by Swampboy:
I'm throwing a penalty flag on the hits on scdigger.
Mentioning his son's accomplishments was valid context. Sure he's proud of what his son is doing and excited about the possibilities. Who wouldn't be? Get over it. He has a current and valid take on the subject of this thread, which is good pitchers with bad stats on bad teams, and how to deal with it.
One of the values of this board is connecting with people who identify with similar situations. Just because the problems of the elite prospects aren't mine doesn't mean they aren't real.
Furthermore, it is uncalled for to belittle his concerns by saying they don't compare to the troubles of players whose lives were turned upside-down by serious diseases or permanently disabling injuries. It's true, but it's also self-evident and irrelevant to this thread.
Try to contain the jealousy, guys.
Best wishes to your sons, scdigger and Pluto.
I guess since I was one who thought scdigger's response was "out of line" I will respond.
I didnt find his son's accomplishments valid here. There are times to talk up your son or mention his accomplishments, but I didnt think this was the place. People do it all the time on the general topics forum and everyone congratulates them. When a dad is states he is concerned about his son's performance, that is not the time to talk about how good your son is and what he has going for him. If scdigger would have said "maybe your son has horrible stats for a reason" I would have thought nothing of it.
Similar situations? What is similar? One is a junior, the other is a senior. One is uncommitted, the other is signed at a MAJOR D-1 school. One has a record of 1-5, the other has a record of 3-4. One has an ERA of about 10.00, the other has an ERA of 1.94(?). One is on a team with a 4-14 record, the other is on a team that just qualified for the playoffs. I dont see too many similarities here. I guess they are both pitchers.
I will agree with you that it is wrong to belittle concerns by comparing them to diseases, etc. But that wasnt me who did that. But also, when somebody comes to you with a problem, is it normal to basically say "You think you have problems, listen to my problems."
Jealous? Yeah, I admit I wish my son threw 95 and that he would sign with a major d-1. I bet I'm not the only one here with that wish. But he is my boy and I love him and his low 80's fastball just the same.
If I'm wrong, I apologize. scdiggers response just hit me the wrong way.