In the perfect world our kids would be all academically driven, but, in the real world there is no "cookie cutter" mold for the drive and dedication of the soul. My son is a pretty smart kid but his "drive pump" was not built for educational excellence but he realized that in order for him obtain his baseball goals he had to give the best he had to academic side of the puzzle.
When it's all working I look at this as a 3-tiered fountain where baseball is at the top it overflows to the academic tier, which over flows to the post school work/family career, and the big pool at the bottom is the love, inspiration, and drive that some call family that provides the source. An ever flowing family fountain. Some kids have an academic top tier, some, maybe an artistic top, but in the end, the drive that overfills the top tier, fills the others.
When all is said and done, it is the big pool at the bottom that keeps the pump going and I see nothing worse than a non-working fountain, aka the "wishing well", where you pitch pennies hoping for a miracle.
Sorry for the philosophical approach but I was trying to simplify my look of the "big picture". A second "I'm sorry" if this comes off as an attempted thread hijack.