Son started receiving contact from very successful D1 program over the winter.
Son and Asst. Coach had regular communications all spring (via email, text, snail mail).
Both ACs have seen son play on multiple occasions. They have expreesed great interested in him. Last time they saw him play in late July, they told him they wanted him to come on an official visit in September.
Son has tried to pin them down for a specific date. My wife and I were intending on taking the visit with him (at our own expense of course). But school is flying distance away. I emailed coach explaining that I was trying to coordinate visiting while minimizing OUR out of pocket travel costs.
Coach never emailed me back, but called my son within a 1/2 hour of my email to say that he wanted to confirm availabilitiy of HC during the visit. Said he would get back to my son that next day. Still haven't heard back from AC and that was over a week ago.
As our proposed visit date is getting closer, airfare costs are rising. Would like to figure out where son stands. I am a bit concerned that either they may be stringing him along or are no longer interested.
Any suggestions if I should follow up with the coach, or continue to leave it to my son. I realize they are recruiting my son (not the parents) and that his expenses (for the most part) are covered by the school. But my wife and mines pocketbook is affected by the fact of "not knowing".
Sorry for babbling. This is our first (and most likely only) experience with recruiting.
Any thoughts on WHO should follow up (if at all)?
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