I have read a lot about how the relationship between catcher and ump can turn games. I kind of like the fact that it doesn't have to be and in fact should not be adversarial. I had a neat opportuntiy to see this play out this weekend. It envolved my son, an out of town ump, and one pretty exciting play at the plate.
We were playing a team from another town only a short drive away. It's Pinto ball and these are 8U kids so you get some perspective. Lots of fun and pretty exciting for our boys to actually travel to another town to play. It's not travel ball just rec league. This towns teams travel to our place for some of their games and we go to theirs for others. The umpire was a local HS player who donated his time to call the game.
As with a lot of teams there is a shortage of any kind of actual play by catcher's at this level around here. Most teams are sucked into that "it's a good place for the less atheletic" idea that I absolutely can't stand. My son's team is unfortunately no exception. I am only assisting and trying to let the other guy coach. I didn't coach this spring so I feel I have no real room to talk. I have to live with my decision and let the guy coach his team.
By the end of the second inning the young umpire's shins and ankles had taken quite the beating from balls mostly just ignored by the little catchers. Not to mention having to chse down all those balls and throw them back himself as most couldn't or wouldn't even try and beat him to them. He would occasionally give the ball back to the catcher to make the throw back, but stopped when he realized this was futile.
The third inniing was my son's first to catch. Now my son is not great by any means, but what he lacks in ability he makes up for in effort. He has learned enough that just a little effort behind the plate can make a world of difference. He plays the position and makes the throw with authority. He knows that most of the balls in this league will drop before they get to him so he plays the hops like grounders at this point and tries to block all he can. He did a pretty good job and I was happy to see the young ump give him a smile, a few kind words, and a pat on the head after his inning.
When it was our time in the field in the fourth my son played OF and we ran out another catcher. I saw the ump come over to our coach and say something. I asked the coach what he had said and he told me that he had asked why my son wasn't catching. Said he wanted the other catcher back. He got him in the fifth, and it all came together.
All those times of backing up 1b with no reward. All those trots back to the plate with a grin on his face knowing that he was one in only a handful of folks, including coaches and players, that even knew what he was doing running down there in the first place. The ball got by 1b, the runner went for 2b and the boy made the throw. It was so close that I would have had to go with the runner, but the ump made the call for the out. I hope no one had a camera on me at that moment because I can't dance. And I shouldn't!!
Ok, I'm his dad and I am biased. But perhaps in the wrong way. When I have coached him I have leaned hard in the other direction. If he made a play and it was close I've always errored on the side of the other player out of fear that I was making a call based on him being my kid. I'll never forget a bang bang play at the plate last season when I was coaching and umping at the plate. Both kids made a great effort and I called the runner safe at home. It was the winning run and I mean close enough to go iether way in anyones eyes. Folks from both sides told me after the game that they though the runner was out. What I was most proud of was that there was no argument and no down face, well maybe a little, but he held together for the most part. On the way home in the car he told me that he really thought he had that guy and he couldn't believe they called him safe. They was me son, and he was safe. You both made a great effort and you both deserve to be rewarded. He scored the winning run for his team. You get an icecream with your dad and get to pound on him for while about making a that call. You'll get the next one.
All of this to say that the importance of this relationship, even at this young age, can determine the outcome of games. I'm pretty sure the local boy caught heck from someone in that crowd for making that call our way. I'm also pretty sure he'd do it again in the same situation. My hope is that my son has many more opportunities to prove me right.
Thanks for listening.
Tim
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