Tickets to "WallyWorld"
On the serious side the gifts I have appreciated from my husband have been those he thought of himself, if he has asked me and I have told him a few ideas and I got those then I wasn't as thrilled as I was with the gifts that I didn't have to list for him. The ones that he took mental notes of throughtout the year were the best,like LAFmom's son and the book. AVOID kitchen items unless that is a major passion/hobby....
One very inexpensive idea that would take a little bit of time, and I have given this idea on this board before is to purchase a special box that that has a lid, it can be a collectable, a handmade wooden box, an engraved box any type of box. Then take small pieces of paper and on each individual piece of paper write a simple phrase, a word a description that would invoke a memory. Take memories that you have together as husband and wife as a family as her role as a mother and a friend. You can write down attributes that you admire about her, you can write down key phrases that are dear to you or to your family. Creating mental pictures with words and stirring up memories that have been forgotten....
This project isn't something that can be done overnight but if you start by sitting down with a pad of paper and just write down a few to get started then you cut these in strips and fold them up, place them in the box and you have begun the creative process. Then as you think of more of them throught the next day(s), night(s), weeks write them down and add them to the box. Don't forget to ask your children for help on some of the family memories and add them as well.
Then when you present the box (wrapped) you tell her this is a box filled with love and tell her to open it up and pull out one piece of paper and read it and then tell her that this box can be read all at once or at leisure one note at a time whenever she wants.
I did this for my parents one Christmas and they spent the next couple of days going back and forth to the box, pulling out a note, reading the note and then sometimes they would share what they had just read and we would relive the memory or I would just see them read it, smile and then go about the day. It still sits in their bedroom and every once in awhile I will go in there and pull out a note read it, place it back in the box and smile.
If my husband took the time to do this for me, or if my boys did it I know it would just blow me away........it is one of those "its the thought that counts" type of gifts.
Remember to get a pad of paper and keep in by your bed (in hiding of course) so that when a memory, phrase or thought comes to mind you jot it down so you don't lose it..........
HAPPY HOLIDAYS...............