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So my 2017 attended a D-1 camp last month.  Toward end of final day, the Assistant Coach/Recruiting Coordinator pulled him aside and told him he did a great job.  Told him the coaching staff were interested in him.  Assistant Coach/Recruiting Coordinator then gave son his cell # and told son to call him so they could talk privately as the camp setting was not an appropriate setting with other players around and games still being played etc. In regards to calling him, AC said to son, "text me first, then call."

 

Son waited a few days after the camp wrapped up on Sunday before he called.  He called the coach on Wednesday.  Missed him on first try.  Got him on second try later that night.  Good chat.  Coach confirmed they were "recruiting" him, whatever that means?  Asked son to pick a day to come up for a visit, etc.  So we sat down as a family and picked out a date that son, and my wife and I could all make.  Told son to call coach back and book it. 

 

Well, that was almost two weeks ago.  Son has not reached coach.  He texts, then calls, but no answer? Has probably tried 5-6 times.  Son now is reluctant to call any more because he thinks the coach is no longer interested in him?  I keep telling him, "look he's a busy guy.  He gave you his cell# right?  Well, he wants you to call him.  You just gotta keep trying."  Son is very reluctant now (I must say, it does bring back bad memories for me of all those girls who never answered my calls but I was still convinced they wanted me?).  Is this normal?

 

This whole NCAA "cloak and dagger" style of coaches not being allowed to contact recruits is ridiculous. Don't get me wrong, I understand why there are rules etc.  But it is ridiculous and a waste of time for all parties.  The fact that son can only call coach, coach can not call player.  Totally dysfunctional.

 

Any thoughts?  Or similar experiences?  I believe son is on verge of quitting on this guy.  And is it possible he is no longer interested?  It is weird and at very least discouraging.

 

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My 2016's experience was similar to OP when trying to reach the pitching coach where he ultimately committed a couple of weeks ago.  Honestly drove me a little crazy but each time he successfully reached the coach it was obvious he wasn't ignoring my son. 

 

I think what your son is experiencing is typical. Encourage him to keep trying. Good Luck. 

If he is truly interested, he will find a way to reach him. I remember a couple of times when RC called his pitching coach to have jr call back at a certain time.

Relax, he is a 2017, there's plenty of time. If he is good enough to be recruited as a sophomore, there will be plenty of opportunities. 

I do agree, it's frustrating. Control what you can control. Good luck!

 

 

#1 Assistant,

 

Your son is a 2017.  Relax.  You've got time.  Try back channels such as travel coaches, high school coaches or others.  Your son should appreciate their initial interest and desire to get to know him better. 

 

They were the first, but probably not the last college coach that told a young recruit they would call him back.  Newsflash - College coaches don't know how to tell time.   Any college coach that wears a watch....it is purely a fashion accessory.  I mean that in the most flattering way possible.  A college baseball recruiters timetable is vastly different from your son's timetable.

 

He should be reaching out to other programs to get his name in front of them as well.  Never stop meeting new coaches and folks that can help until he commits or signs that NLI.  While difficult to understand for a 2017 this is the way the recruiting world works.  I'm sure everybody's son who plays or played college baseball could rattle off 10 schools off the top of their head who never called back or who got back to them a month or so later.

 

Good luck! 

 

 

Last edited by fenwaysouth
Originally Posted by Rick at Informed Athlete:

BucsFan is correct.  The quiet period means that coaches can't be doing any off-campus recruiting.  They can still phone and e-mail recruits (if the recruits are a junior or older) or accept calls from recruits.

Rick, thanks for your response.  Always appreciated.

 

But I wonder if some coaches purposely take this time to not recruit, not teeter on NCAA line, take a breather, get ready for the fall season, set the game plan for fall recruiting, and nail down the upcoming season schedule.  Looks like the quiet period gives them a good excuse to get some other things done.

Originally Posted by Rick at Informed Athlete:

keewart, that's precisely why the Quiet period is in the calendar after a busy summer of recruiting at showcases and tourneys all over the country.  The NCAA staff in Indy didn't just say "let's stick a Quiet period in the middle of September for no reason", the coaches association had a lot of input into that decision.

You guys are right, the quiet period is not for the student athlete, but for the coaches.

 

As a recruit, I strongly suggest that one prints up the calendar along with what is allowed for each HS year.  This kind of takes some anxiety away during certain periods in the process.

 

Have your son follow up with an email, give it some time, relax he is a 2017. Coaches are busy and their #1 priority for most is getting their team settled into a routine.  Plus keep in mind that it is also OV time for their 2015 class and they are still working on 2016.

 

Dont take this personally, but this is what I see as a very big issue with parents and players, if they don't get the immediate tresponse they are looking for, they get upset with the coach but the "rules", are in place for a reason.

Originally Posted by keewart:
Originally Posted by Rick at Informed Athlete:

BucsFan is correct.  The quiet period means that coaches can't be doing any off-campus recruiting.  They can still phone and e-mail recruits (if the recruits are a junior or older) or accept calls from recruits.

Rick, thanks for your response.  Always appreciated.

 

But I wonder if some coaches purposely take this time to not recruit, not teeter on NCAA line, take a breather, get ready for the fall season, set the game plan for fall recruiting, and nail down the upcoming season schedule.  Looks like the quiet period gives them a good excuse to get some other things done.

That "other thing" would be called Fall Baseball; the time when the coaches are required to focus a lot of attention on player development and evaluation within their own roster.

 

Recruiting never stops completely; but, there is a team to coach, as well.

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