So my 2017 attended a D-1 camp last month. Toward end of final day, the Assistant Coach/Recruiting Coordinator pulled him aside and told him he did a great job. Told him the coaching staff were interested in him. Assistant Coach/Recruiting Coordinator then gave son his cell # and told son to call him so they could talk privately as the camp setting was not an appropriate setting with other players around and games still being played etc. In regards to calling him, AC said to son, "text me first, then call."
Son waited a few days after the camp wrapped up on Sunday before he called. He called the coach on Wednesday. Missed him on first try. Got him on second try later that night. Good chat. Coach confirmed they were "recruiting" him, whatever that means? Asked son to pick a day to come up for a visit, etc. So we sat down as a family and picked out a date that son, and my wife and I could all make. Told son to call coach back and book it.
Well, that was almost two weeks ago. Son has not reached coach. He texts, then calls, but no answer? Has probably tried 5-6 times. Son now is reluctant to call any more because he thinks the coach is no longer interested in him? I keep telling him, "look he's a busy guy. He gave you his cell# right? Well, he wants you to call him. You just gotta keep trying." Son is very reluctant now (I must say, it does bring back bad memories for me of all those girls who never answered my calls but I was still convinced they wanted me?). Is this normal?
This whole NCAA "cloak and dagger" style of coaches not being allowed to contact recruits is ridiculous. Don't get me wrong, I understand why there are rules etc. But it is ridiculous and a waste of time for all parties. The fact that son can only call coach, coach can not call player. Totally dysfunctional.
Any thoughts? Or similar experiences? I believe son is on verge of quitting on this guy. And is it possible he is no longer interested? It is weird and at very least discouraging.