caught_stealing,
Earlier in the recruiting process my son found it was easier to let the coaches know which conferences he was talking to instead of giving specific teams names. It gave the coaches a general idea of the level he was getting interest from.
As offers were starting to be made, he then started telling them specifically which teams were in the mix. Interestingly, most of the schools already seem to be aware of who he was talking too.
One thing I would strongly suggest is that your son doesn't take any school for granted. You never know who the coach might be friends with. In our situation, my son had been seen by a local head coach from an Ivy League school. While Jerseyson is a smart kid, let’s just say he probably isn’t Ivy League material.
Anyway the Ivy coach happens to be friends with the head coach of the team he signed with. We found out later in the recruiting process that the Ivy coach had called and said he should be looking at my son as a recruit. Who knew, I’m sure glad my son didn’t blow off the local coach!