This topic has been touched on in a variety of manners in multiple strains, and many of us have been experiencing some of this.
2013 received personal emails throughout the summer inviting him to attend one of the camps this school would be offering, saying it was the only way this school recruited. E-mail conversations took place back and forth about his skills and their needs. RC was very responsive to questions and always replied within an hour or two.
Made the trip to the camp - six hours each way, hotel room and food. Great campus, excellent camp, but coaches never mentioned the "next steps" and they didn't pull any kids aside during the event.
2013 sent his thank-you follow up email the next day expressing interest in the school and program. Nothing.
Sent another email the next week with an update about his admission status, etc., inquiring about feedback from the camp. Nothing.
Called the next week, left a voice mail saying he was following up on his emails, that they had been very responsive before the camp, knows they are busy but he would really like to know what they thought of him or if he just doesn't fit their needs. Nothing.
Folks on these boards have said not to take it personally. That's tough.
What's particularly ironic about this situation is that a coach from another school had contacted 2013 for a potential visit and he replied immediately, thanking the coach and saying that he really appreciated it but the size and location of the school just aren't a good fit. That coach replied to 2013 and thanked him so much for letting him know, and said, "you have no idea how many kids never bother to reply to tell me they aren't interested."
We know exactly how frustrating that is.
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