Coach May,
I really enjoyed your post.
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How many times have you seen the dad yell at his 9 year old son while taking bp for jerking an outside pitch or lunging at a curve ball. The kid is so nervous that he is going to get yelled at that he isn't having any fun and he can't wait to get out of the box or{pressure cooker}.
This particular section is very true.
When my son was about 9, I was playing back a tape of a basketball game my son played. Many of us watched the silent game films when we were younger, so we tune the sound out.
But my wife said, "Listen to yourself." It was really ugly. I did not like that guy doing the hollering and yelling. My son probably didn't either.
When you take your video cam to the game some time and set it up, turn it around on yourself and watch yourself at a game sometime. Really.
It will cure you from yelling at your son and coaching from the stands in a heart beat.