"I am a taker! Who cares how many posts I have on this forum and how many people have responded? I have a son who will play college baseball soon. If I feel comfortable on this forum and can gather information to help in our quest, I will continue to be a taker. There are several services that I would consider paying for to achieve our goals. If I cannot find what I need here, I will look elsewhere."
mifdaddy, I have to assume you really mean this and this is the reason you are on this site and others.
My views/perspectives are as follows:
No matter how much you "take" from this site, it does not equate to "my son will play college baseball soon."
No matter how much you "pay" to "take" from other sites, it does not equate to "my son will play college baseball soon."
By and large, this site is about talking baseball with the primary focus of helping players be able to understand the process, move through and beyond HS baseball and be successful as a player, teammate, and student.
Nothing you can "take" and nothing you can "pay" makes one bit of difference in the outcome you have already created that "my son will play college baseball soon."
It is more than ironic that your post comes almost contemporaneously with Stanwoods post in the General Forum. His son is a really, really good player on one of the topic college programs. His son decided baseball isn't fun anymore and the forum post, to me, says everything which would be so helpful for you to stop and read and "take."
In my view and experience as a "stale oldtimer" the only things which matter on the issue of "my son will play college baseball soon" are the talents of your son, his make up, his ability to produce on a college baseball field, and to be better every day on a college baseball field, all coupled with the ability to succeed in the classroom.
As a parent, nothing you "take" from here or elsewhere and nothing you "buy" from elsewhere makes any difference once your son attends that first team meeting, lifts that first weight, fields that first ground ball and takes that first AB. Whether your son "plays" college baseball is up to your son and the choices he makes coupled with his skills and talents, and passion for the game.
Good luck to your son.