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I started commenting to another post, but then I got off topic and thought maybe I should just write in a separate post. There are a lot of load of great baseball people here & great baseball stories, too. And I'm thankful for all because it's just too cool to, for example, see posts from Zach Duke's dad...or (in the past) even Zach himself. But sometimes I shake my head about all of the posts from people who are hitting in the 90s, batting .724, undecided about whether they should accept the full ride from AZ, USC, or Texas, etc. I love reading all of these posts, but it all seems pretty far from reality.

So, I thought I'd toss in an outcome from the other side of the tracks. Maybe it'll be a great feel-good story in years to come, maybe it'll cause the dream to end really soon, or maybe it'll all last a little longer, then fizzle. Who knows?

My son's school has approx. 1300 & they play in 4A (the largest qualification in this state). His school is a baseball powerhouse in this state--last year, the HS went 18-1, & they went to states in Sr. division, Jr. division, and (I think) regular little leagues. For some reason, there are no freshman teams around here, so he was competing against 9th & 10th graders for a slot on the JV team. And it doesn't help any that he's a young '10 (still 14). In his favor, he's an LHP with good command and great movement. Unfortunately, his FB is mid-60s, so he was cut.

Of course, he was devastated...he's been playing since he was 4 & pitching since he was 7. But he's still playing Jr. division baseball this year & although I was afraid he might have some confidence issues, he's more confident than ever this year. A few days after he was cut, he signed up for track so that he can stay in shape and lift for next year.

Despite the blow to the ego and not getting the instruction from excellent coaches this spring, there might be some positives. Because Jr. division and JV baseball overlap here, he'll probably get a lot more innings in by being cut (albeit against much weaker hitters). So, we'll see how it all goes & if he can make the team next year.

Anyway, my advice to him for years has been: enjoy every chance that you have to play baseball because it'll be gone before you know it and to work hard to learn and improve. I'm glad that he seems to be doing both very well this year.
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Some perspective here:

Tomorrow I am going to a Division II college game where 6 of our kids are playing--- they played on our team over the past couple of years---they are playing baseball and getting an education at the same---that is the TRUE REALITY---not all kids go major Division I or Pro--all you need to do is check the numbers
Pirateradio, It sounds like you and your son have a terrific outlook on the entire situation, You are correct - he's only 14. He's got a lot of life, and baseball, still ahead of him.

TR - we love D2 ball, and D3, along with D1. We're hoping to catch FPC (soon to be FPU), Colby-Sawyer, possibly St. Michael's and Southern Ct State, along with one of the WVU-UConn games, assuming we can fit them into an already baseball packed schedule. Good baseball - beautiful campuses - what's not to love?
Bummer!

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Originally posted by pirateradio:
Because Jr. division and JV baseball overlap here, he'll probably get a lot more innings in by being cut (albeit against much weaker hitters). So, we'll see how it all goes & if he can make the team next year.


Is that like Rec ball, PONY, LL? I'm not always on top of these things.

Since I seem to see it many other places, it seems redundant to comment or inquire if your son is on a select team. (Or is that Jr. Division?)
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he's an LHP with good command and great movement.


I see this as a "glass half full" right off the bat.

1. He got a taste of the tryout process

2. He was cut.............sometimes you have to take a step back in order to see how much you want something.

3. Use this season wisely as an "extended spring training". Get good instruction, make your face known at HS games, and WATCH the game from an educational standpoint. While the game is easy to understand from watching a play, very few watch the complete flow between the lines. I was not a very good player as a kid and never really understood. Now, even when my son is on the mound I end up watching how the rest of the team adjusts to him instead of watching him. Your son could come out of this Spring much further ahead than if he mde the team.

4. But best of all he's a LHP with good command and great movement with a fresh un-tapped arm.

One step back 4 steps forward.
I'll add another angle, if he is pitching, he can get better, who cares about the competition. I had a disagrement with another poster some time back with that reasoning. I think that unless your son has perfected all of his pitches and completely dominates the competition (near perfect games every time out), then can can learn and grow pitching to anyone.
High school coaches have so much to do it's hard to really spend a lot of working with each kid. I've heard so many parents complain that there's no teaching at the high school and college levels. (maybe the kids just aren't listening) But anyway, if you guys really work at it, private lessons or you and him with books and videos and some sweat, chances are he'll pass up a bunch of the guys that are on the team now. Especially if he's a late bloomer since he's young. He'll get more quality time this way and some motivation from being cut.
Thanks for all of the comments! Well, maybe it's just refreshing, after him playing 9th grade football & basketball + track now, to be one of the coaches for his Jr. league team and actually get to see him practice and interact with his friends. When you realize that this could be the last year that you get to help coach & hang out in this capacity, hey, it'll be a fun season no matter what Smile

TR: Right now, I think he'll be happy to play JV Smile I think he'd be ecstatic to play DII or DIII

KmomNH: Thanks!

Infidel_08: In my day, it was pony league. We don't have select teams around here. Jr. Division is the LL name for 13-14 YOs & Sr. Division is 15-16 YOs.

RZ1: Thanks for all of the steps.

thegame2003: Thanks! We'll probably have him at one of the college pitching camps again this summer.

obrady: Thanks, I pretty much agree. Although I think you can become overconfident in your pitches against weaker hitting, there's something to be said for going 100% and making good pitches, no matter who the hitter is.

Innocent Bystander: Thanks. Yup, I plan to keep working with him. I don't really know if he'll ever pass by the other guys, but being 6-9 months younger than most of the other 9th graders will probably help him later on, I would guess.

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