Yeah, that **** “Ordinary Effort” thing really throws a crimp in things doesn’t it?
Another thing that really makes things difficult, is perspective, as both you and OK Heat have pointed out. Like you, I was a pitcher’s dad, and found it very difficult indeed to keep my biases in check, and I’m sure I didn’t always manage to do it. But as time has passed and while I still keep score, I no longer have skin in the game in the form of a child or relative. The closest I come now is knowing the kid from past years. I feel that’s really helped me get rid of all but the most deep rooted of biases, like not charging a pitcher with a fielding error other than on the most egregious of offenses.
Unfortunately, while I feel it has made me much more unbiased than most other scorers at the HS level, it presents a different set of ‘problems”. The main one is, my perspective. I always try very hard to be as close to directly behind the plate as possible, and on the right side of the plate to get the best view of the catcher and 1st base as possible. Unfortunately, the head coach’s perspective is NEVER the same as mine, and in more ways than just the view of the field.
I sit where I do to try to give all the fielder’s an equal chance to benefit from my perspective, and I try to get that view or close to it as often as possible to be as consistent as I can. FI, If I sat where I had a great view of the 1st basemen and the runner, I’d have the worst view of the 3rd baseman and left fielder, a poor view of the catcher, and a bad view to judge how close an infielder got to a ground ball. If I sit on the 3rd base side, the opposite would be true, and God forbid I sat in the dugout which has to be the worst place on the field to score a game from.
So, between the coach and I, we have a difference in the actual view of the field, but here’s what’s worse. We’re definitely focused on vastly different things, which in effect means we’re not watching the same game! Here’s a small example that happened in the last 2 games we played, one against a top local rival, and the other in our 1st playoff game.
We’re on defense late in the game and coach in the the 1st base dugout. 3-2 count on the batter, runners on 1st and 3rd with 2 outs and we’re losing by a run. Pitcher on the mound is in a fight for low ERA in the league. Batter hits a screamer a couple steps to the left of the SS. He jumps what had to be 3’ in the air, but the ball hits the top of his glove and rolls into the OF. The runner on 1st was running when the pitcher 1st moved, and was able to score all the way from 1st. I had a funny feeling, so between innings, I asked the coach hit or error. His replay was, “Whatever you think, but even I can catch a line drive hit at me.” Reluctantly I score it an error because while I think it was a hit because if the catch had been made it would have been on the highlight reel for 2 weeks. IOW, more than “ordinary effort”. However, there is a fine line that has to be navigated, and it was just close enough that I can live with it being marked an error.
Last game. We’re ahead by 7 runs in the top of the last inning, and our coach is in the 1st base dugout. Our hitter, a LHr is leading off. The other team has moved their DH to 1st base and a couple things are obvious. 1 is, at about 5’9/300, he’s in need of a conditioning program, and another is, since in the program he’s only had 9 defensive chances all season and 2 of those were errors, he’s not exactly Albert Pujols over there. The count gets to 2-2 and the 1B is playing pretty far back. Batter hits a solid shot 1 hopper right at the 1b. He moves his foot to get it out of the way, puts his glove down, but its not open! The ball hits the back of the glove and skitters onto the of. I mark it E3 without hesitation.
After every game, I send the coach the hitting, pitching, and fielding stats for just that game, and about an hour later I get a reply saying that ball was definitely a hit. I reply that I won’t argue, but I reminded him of the liner the game before, and of about 6 similar plays 3b’s had earned errors on.
So, a lot of it is in the perspective of the observer. I just wish coaches would let SKs score the game, and umpires umpire the game. In turn, those guys should let the coach coach the game, and everyone would be happy! LOL!