I agree with MidloDad and all that he has said.
PG - I have a question for you. Are you saying what you think people want to hear or what you believe? I am not sure you can have it both ways. I apologize in advance if I have misunderstood your points.
This issue highlights a paradox in our society. If you believe in free speech, then what Donald Sterling has said should have no bearing on you. If you believe that speech ought to be controlled to prevent harm to society, then the only way to control it "absolutely" is for everybody to say "nothing".
Oliver Wendall Holmes - the famous Supreme Court Justice, tried to give an ad hoc example of what "may" constitute harmful speech to our society over a century ago. He said "Surely, we all agree that if someone shouted "Fire" in a crowded theater," and that caused a stampede for the exits where someone was injured as a result therefrom, then that ought to constitute harmful speech. To this date all these years later, there has not been one documented case where someone has said something that caused physical harm in this manner or otherwise.
They (a bereaved parent) tried to sue Ossie Osborne for what they alleged was speech that led to a teen suicide. Osborne's speech may have in fact led to the young man making such fateful decision. However, it is not a simple cause and effect analysis even though the media simplistically paints it that way for ratings. It may have been Osborne's speech, it may have been a mentally deranged young man making a deranged decision, or it may have been a combination of the two. Regardless, if it was possible that it was simply a mentally deranged young man, how do you blame the "deranged" messenger when millions of other people heard the same song and were not led to the same conclusion i.e., suicide?
Yes, people can hurt others feelings. There is no way to control that imho without a corresponding paradoxical alternative . You are stuck with the conundrum of having to choose between hurt feelings or not being able to speak at all because no matter how articulate and intelligent you are, someone will in "FACT" be offended by what you have to say.
Alec Baldwin has said more offensive things imho or at least as offensive as Sterling. Why don't we ban him from his livelihood as well?