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As the coach of our US Army high school team here in Seoul, I found myself recently getting uber-competitive feeling towards the other US schools we play around Korea.....but in a way that was not real positive. I wanted to crush them, mercy them, and I was looking upon them as a 'thing' to be destroyed on the field rather than as individual human beings that I'm sure I would really love knowing and coaching were I at one of their schools. Then I thought, ya know what, a lot of these kids are over here with just one parent while the other works back home. And many of these kids have parents in Iraq right now -- flying missions, patrolling Baghdad......all of it. And those soldier-airman-parents will probably be hoping for a phone call or an e-mail later on so their sons can share how their games went.......avoiding IEDs on patrol and killing the time wondering how your son is doing on a ballfield thousands of miles away....

These thoughts gave me an entirely new perspective on our games today (DH).....we will have fun and we'll make sure the two visiting teams have fun as well.

PLAY BALL!!
"I would be lost without baseball. I don't think I could stand being away from it as long as I was alive." Roberto Clemente #21
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Originally posted by Krakatoa:
As the coach of our US Army high school team here in Seoul, I found myself recently getting uber-competitive feeling towards the other US schools we play around Korea.....but in a way that was not real positive. I wanted to crush them, mercy them, and I was looking upon them as a 'thing' to be destroyed on the field rather than as individual human beings that I'm sure I would really love knowing and coaching were I at one of their schools. Then I thiught, ya know what, a lot of these kids are over here with just one parent while the other works back home. And many of these kids have parents in Iraq right now -- flying missions, patrolling Baghdad......all of it. And those soldier-airman-parents will probably be hoping for a phone call or an e-mail later on so their sons can share how their games went.......avoiding IUDs on patrol and killing the time wondering how your son is doing on a ballfield thousands of miles away....

These thoughts gave me an entirely new perspective on our games today (DH).....we will have fun and we'll make sure the two visiting teams have fun as well.

PLAY BALL!!


Krak, after reading this post of yours I am speechless. I re-read it over and over...as a Dad, as former US Marine who served some time overseas, as a fan of high school baseball, and most of all, as an American. It is so refreshing when I see folks (besides myself) that have epiphanies such as yours. To know these boys are away already under stressful conditions (overseas) with Dad's possibly out on the frontlines I can only imagine how either (Dad & son) can truly focus at times.

I want to personally thank you for your change of heart in coaching against these other kids and teams.

You Sir are the epitome of a great Coach and Teacher of life.
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